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Sep 17, 2020 15 tweets 3 min read Read on X
*Thread* - It's IMPOSSIBLE to help others

Before you've helped yourself

'good people' = energy sucking master manipulators
Always posting on social media about 'helping others'

Unconsciously does it for recognition

To satisfy a self interest of 'being seen as a good person'

You can't help others until you help yourself

Motivation to help others isn't genuine until our self interest cups are full
He says he wants to 'change people's lives'

This is a cope & manipulation

Hoping to play on emotions to make more sales

Until his money is handled

It is IMPOSSIBLE for his primary motivation to be 'helping others'

Human nature is wired to do things for ourselves not others
Until you handle your emotional voids, basic needs, limiting beliefs, copes, etc

Your primary driver for action will NOT be capable of orienting itself to best serve others

It will seek to serve your voids (needs) first

Best way to help others
Is to first help yourself
CONTENT 🔑

If my voids aren't handled

I will UNCONSCIOUSLY be incapable of orienting myself to post the BEST content I can

It will seek to get RECOGNITION to fill voids (needs)

- Looking cool, smart, attractive, status, tough, masculine

(whatever the voids are)
^ So it appears people are posting content to 'help others'

But the TRUE ROOT & primary motivation for posting

Is to help themselves

To TAKE recognition & validation to fill their voids
🔑 Perception holds more weight than fact

Recognition satisfies the void via perception

...but only temporarily, because the actual life is void of the evidence

Thus he becomes reliant on external perception

This is what makes social media addicting & crippling
🔑 This is how normal people can gradually become monsters

- Investing more & more into this perception
- The bigger the lie & expectations

- More drastic measures are needed to keep up the lie

Primal instincts kick in for survival in 'the tribe'

Vicious loop
The best way to help others

Is to first help yourself

Dissolve the belief that putting your needs first is selfish

It is the prerequisite to genuinely help those in need

Thank you for reading

🥂 Cheers,
- Yous
📝 Added Notes (HUGE KEYS IN HERE 🔑)

Ever hear this confusing statement?

"When you don't need/want it, then you'll have it"

Or

"When you stop caring, they start chasing"

Here's whats really going on...
🔑 When you don't need anything, then you can have everything

- Don't need followers
- Don't make my money from this
- Don't need to look cool

This allows my mind to orient itself to post the best thing I possibly can

Not playing it safe, or taking energy, or needing anything
Making content is like making conversation socially or on a date

Playing to win means your brain is oriented towards the best thing to share, best experience to share

Energetically you're giving. Which means you'll receive

Playing to not lose however...
Means you're playing to

- Maintain pride
- To look cool
- To get validation

These are all ENERGETICALLY USING another person and TAKING ENERGY

Thus you will not receive

🔑 Here's THE KEY....
When you need (voids) it means you lack

If you lack you have nothing to give

If you have nothing to give you won't receive

This is why the formula is:

"You can have everything you want, if you have it within yourself first"
The more you have the more you give
More you give more you receive
More you receive more you can give

Until those voids (needs) are taken care of

YOU WILL ALWAYS BE CHASING NOT ATTRACTING

USING OTHER PEOPLE
Even if you consciously think it's good intentions & loving

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