Thread by @ThejourneyofACL

Dear Lover Girl, Do Not Awaken Love Early!
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I know you want to feel among, you want to also have someone you can call hubby, fiance, boyfriend, my one and only, some will go ahead to call their spouse my life, dalu😂

Love is a beautiful thing, everyone wishes to be loved but when it is not yet time, please do not awaken love! Please let it be! Don't arouse feelings and emotions you are unable to handle, don't start a journey you are not fully equipped for! Please rest!

You cannot be 15 and in a hurry to go into a serious relationship especially when you are not prepared to get married soon. Now you are visiting brother, helping him to wash clothes and always walking with him on the streets,

you will only end up arousing sexual desires that may not be quenched until they are satisfied and this could lead to sexual immorality, don't tell me you didn't know😶

I have seen young girls of 14 posting their boyfriend pictures, hugging each other in studio pictures and I begin to wonder, it is surprising to see how the are more concerned about relationships than their academics,

they will prefer to go out with this boys instead of facing their studies and this could lead to unwanted pregnancy if they are not corrected and educated about this!

At 14, you are already in a relationship you call serious with no reasons to be with each other, you are already having emotional stress and heart aches😂

it is funny to hear a teenager of 13 telling you they are facing heartbreaks when their studies are experiencing a wreck. Lol You may say you are not 14 but you know you are not ready to get married or to be in a relationship then why awaken love!

You are still answering those calls, blushing when you know you have other things to handle. We all know it takes extra work to keep a healthy and pure relationship, are you ready for it?

There is no point going into a relationship without marriage as the center of it, no one said marriage should be the first thing to talk about but if you are in a relationship with a man you cannot marry, then why waste all the time and energy to raise a relationship with him!

Some of us have spent 7 years that could be used to study medicine to continue patching a relationship we know cannot work. We started dating at 10, say what? How do you intend to keep purity and sanity in such relationship?

There is no age per say for someone to go into a relationship or get married but if you are not ready even at 25 please don't stress it! You will know it when you are ready, you will know it when you can stand all the temptations that comes from being in a relationship!

Don't go into a relationship when you are spiritually stable, konji no de look face but at least you will know how to overcome.I do not advice a teenage girl to be in a relationship,

I don't know what you want to be doing there o please go and read your books😏 even if all your friends are dating please look for important things to do, stop listening to those brothers calling you "sugar in my tea" wait for the right time!

If you decide to go into a relationship, then be ready for it, be ready to stand for purity, be ready for marriage, stop celebrating 9 years of dating!!! Stop!!

Just wait until you are ready for marriage, at least not more than 3 years except God wants you both to wait longer but please longer courting brings compromises!

Lover Girl,
The fact that brother is spiritual does not make him less human, don't go for weekends, don't do sleep over, please we know you are both dating but you must not be together always, the world must not know!!

Be sure you are convinced before you go into any relationship and let him be a believer as you, don't let your sexual desires lead you into visiting day and night but if you are in so much hurry then tell him to take you to the altar!

Don't be the one to kiss brother first but as he kissest thou please remind him of the purity you both must keep. Make Christ the rock of your relationship and let everything work according to His will. Don't be in a hurry to rush into what they call "Marriage"!

Make sure you are ready to mingle before you say Yes because love requires sacrifices and as a woman of valor you should represent Proverbs 31!!! Take your time and build capacity🔥

Please calm down, being single does not make you less human, yet gives you more time to be a better woman! Don't come a be a burden to God's son😂 I know God will give all the ladies here, husband materials just be calming down!

Let Jesus be the centre of your love journey, make sure you start with Jesus and keep standing on God's word! I hope this sinks!!!

Love, Essie❤

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