The last line was me saying into the phone “Heyyyyy”
For those of you who know me and even the ones who don’t...
I love talking to people. In person, back and forth, listening...
I love talking on the phone just as much...always have...another by product of being Big E’s son...
That’s what he did best, and I learned from the best...Mrs Consig and I talked on the phone so much back in...
the day, and I know I have my soul mate because she likes talking on the phone with me just as much...
Man, was I happy to hear her voice!!! If it’s possible, I think she was happier to hear mine...
Relieve, happiness, assurance, etc...we laughed, we cried, we talked like...
we were in high school again...we recapped the events of the past 12 hours and filled in the blanks best we could...
But it was blessed, lucky and grateful that we kept going back to & repeating...
We could have gone on forever, but we were on GP’s cellphone so I said...
“Can I talk to the kids?”
“Of course, they are very excited to hear you...”
First up, it’s baby Consig, the coolest 6 year old in the world...
“Hi Daddy...”
I was done...we talked back and forth, but my eyes were closed just picturing her blue eyes looking at me...amazing...
Grateful...I can’t wait to see you and give you the tightest squeeze in the world...
Then, I get senior Consig, my oldest daughter...she has grown into such a strong, young woman, but she always has that special place in my heart...
We have had so many conversations...
about life, softball, family, being the oldest and everything else, but this conversation was another first...
She either calls me Daddy or jagoff anymore, and honestly, I’m good with either cause that means we are talking...
“Daddy, you ok?”
I am now, Ky...I am now...
“You know how scary that was, you jagoff?”
Uh, yeah, it was scary for me too.
We compared notes about the chain of events, the course of action that her and her sisters took and enjoying the back and forth...
Anytime she wants to talk, I want to listen...I was so blessed to...
be having this talk...
Before she passed the phone to her sister, I told her:
“Listen, there is no other way to say this...you saved my life...everything you and your sisters did...I am so proud of you...thank you, Ky”
Tears were streaming down my face, but I was trying...
to sound strong for her...we exchanged “love yous” and she said “here is Kels”
Oh man...deep breath...middle Consig...my middle daughter...she is the emotional one...heart of gold, everybody’s friend and quite the talker...
Reminds me of somebody I know, probably why...
I nicknamed her “the Mayor” years ago...
She is Cinderella because she is the one who takes the brunt of everything, takes everybody’s shit and just keeps showing up...
Between her and her big sis, they are two of the strongest, toughest kids I know, and I am so proud of them..
Here goes nothing...
“Daddy?”
Hi Kels...
“You good, bruh?”
I’m good, Kels...how are you?
“Daddy, man, bruh, that was scary! I couldn’t believe it...You couldn’t talk, Mama wasn’t home and...”
On and on she went, rambling every little detail as only Kels does...
I got in...
an occasional “yep” or “I know” but for the most part, it was her talking and me listening...I wouldn’t have it any other way...
Smiling, laughing, more tears, just hearing her recount every detail was amazing...
Even the part about the “best looking paramedic in Vegas” who...
got me out of the house...
When I was finally able to get a word in, I said:
“Kels, we are very lucky you and your sisters were home. They got me here fast and the doctors were able to do their thing. Whole thing is a miracle. You saved my life, kiddo. Thank you”...
I was crying again...I was so overcome with emotion, both happiness and gratitude.
I am thinking she was too, but neither of us said anything.
After a couple seconds, we exchanged “love yous” and she put Mrs Consig back on...
“Heyyyyy...”
Goddamn do I love her phone voice...
So, I guess I have to go now cause I’m on GP’s phone, but I’ll call you later, ok?
“But I don’t want to hang up”
Neither do I, Jess, but I have to recover.
“I wish we could come see you...”
Me too...
My voice trailed off...
“Everything happens for a reason. Someone..,
Is looking out for us.”
Damn, she got me again. More tears, choked up, and this time it wasn’t the stroke making me not talk...that lump in my throat was real...
Jess broke the silence...
“I just want to see you and hug you”
Barely able to get the words out...
I replied “Soon. Not yet, but soon.”
I could see her in my eyes. A couple seconds passed. She goes “Alright...go rest...I am so happy to hear your voice...call me later, please”
You know I will...
We exchanged “I love yous” and hung up...
Then, it all hit me...
I sat there, upright in my hospital bed in room 516, by myself, no visitors allowed because of Covid, having just had a major stroke and surgery to fix it...
Blessed, lucky and grateful...
My three girls...
No shit, I felt like the proudest dad in the world...
It was 1994, in Pittsburgh. Was working multiple jobs & hanging out with guys who bet games and guys who booked games.
Everything was done in pick up and drop offs. Everything was done over the phone. Word of mouth was how info got passed. It was..
also how you got a guy.
There was no promo code. There were no bonuses (at least at the beginning). If Moses the barber took your action, it was because he knew you or someone vouched for you.
All the book guys I met had cool nicknames. Bussy, Philly, Pie, and Rabbi were..
a few that a 23 year old kid was around at the card games, the fantasy drafts, let alone the dinners.
Got into a Sunday night card game with the Barber. He invited a couple other guys. The Rat, a bartender, the Bomber, a golf pro, Killer (we weren’t sure what he did), Tooney..
Non-stop, three days in a row, lines of people 100 deep, ticket..
after ticket, and just enough time to go home & take a nap in between. In all my years in the business, have never seen it as busy as it was these three days.
Back at it Sunday morning, hoping to just get through this day and not snap.
At lunch with my dad, years ago, an old bookie guy told us..
“All this shit, all the sports, all the suits, all the hats, none of it means shit if you don’t take care of the home team.”
Remember like it was yesterday. Thought I knew shit. So I ask..
“Wait, what? Sports are fixed? Don’t tell me that.”
He smiled at my dad. Looked over at me. And went..
“Your home team is your family. You have to play strong at home. You don’t win every game, but you have to make sure they are good before you go on the road. You..
understand?”
I nodded.
“You are a good son. Listen to your parents. Keep an eye out for your brothers & sisters at all times. Shit will get tough. You will understand when you have kids of your own.”
Today is Thanksgiving. For many of us, today is a special day. For me, it is the three "F's." Back in school, F's were bad, but today, it's all about the Food, Football & Family.
The date was 11/27/1980. Bears at Lions. Det -3, 37 was the line..
Up to that point, I had always been a Steeler fan, growing up in the glory days of the Super Bowl Champs. Every Sunday, the day was centered around whether the game was on at 1pm or 4pm.
I knew we didn't like the Browns and Bengals, and despite the best uniforms in football..
we weren't supposed to like the Houston Oilers, but man, those baby blues and Earl Campbell were fantastic.
The other teams were just that..other teams, brought to life by the halftime highlights on Monday Night Football by Howard Cosell.