The #NationalDaughtersDay posts make me laugh, but they make me cry too. Although I have no living children, I would have had four Sons if any had lived.
I love seeing all my Nieces thriving and shining. One of my eldest is a college grad now, working in film/tv even in "covid"
I got to "see" 2 of my other nieces today on Zoom. My @j2trippy is a college graduate, successful in music, & opening an art gallery soon. PRAISE HER. Her younger Sis @graceandakira has a line of books, a book club & today told me "I've been working on my beats in Garage Band".
My eldest Niece by Blood, Kat, is at NYU now. I don't see my blood family often at all, but I'm glad the generational curses are broken and that she is getting access to all the resources I was denied growing up. The sky is the limit to what she can do. I'm not a wife or mom ...
but the closest I have to being either is helping a lot of my comrades, some of them very close to me personally, raise their daughters up in small ways. It means a lot to me that when it is time to learn to cook or talk about their futures in education or career, they come 2 me.
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I was in the back of a pearl white stretch limousine in a gown and a faux fur On my way to an industry soirée. My 2way pager 📟 started to go extinction level event crazy. Aaliyah BabyGirl Houghton’s plane crashed after Damon Dash forced her to rush her trip. Tears ruined my face
I asked the limo driver to take me to Harlem I paged Niki to get dressed urgently she met me downstairs in a real fur and full glam. We went to the all night diner and had fries mozz sticks root beer floats onion rings burgers - veg 4 me - and cried in our floats. We barely ate.
Niki asked to stop and cop on the way home. I asked the driver to pull over and I considered for the first time ever in my life using drugs. We dropped Niki and her bag off up top. I’m a dealer not a customer. I fixed my face and swung by the industry soiree it was done. Limo’s
I was very sick and don’t remember what tour this was or if Tajai sent to me or it was on socials. I just know this is a photo that gives a glimpse of the fellas and how hard they work. Deeper still this is DEL. He crouches down or sits on a curb he’s like a skater 🛹. 1000 words
I try not to regret. I don’t like to say I wish… and I HAVE had the chance to be on a few days of a tour run with Hiero or Souls. I’ve been on the bus or the van - sometimes Domino or Casual didn’t like that I was there and that’s part of their dynamic too! BUT I never got to…
Be the road manager for Hiero or Souls. A few non-hieroglyphics have done it. No one can do it BETTER than Tajai it Domino. But I’ve done it from bed in Oakland in so much pain - advanced shows for Souls/strong arm steady with Tajai doing the overseas in person road management…
Coachella. I'd been the very first year ever, when it was held in Summer. It was ONE HUNDRED TWENTY DEGREES FAHRENHEIT and I was running from stage to stage taking pics and documenting for platform.net (the original website of crafted by the grafted!!)
performing inside a hot dusty sweaty tent, his plastic Elvis/Jermaine Jackson wig literally & figuratively melting into his actual scalp... It was a menagerie of dusty filthy barefoot patchouli-scented mixed with underarm-funk whitewimminz with like ... 50 BIPOC dancing on beat.
Flash forward so so many years to the @coachella with the MadVillain performance. Imagine myself, DOOM, @madlib and assorted people from stonesthrow-whateverthefuck backstage in "VIP" which is still a dusty field with some airstream trailers. Standing around, shooting the shit.
I'm going to be giving the FLOWERS today to one of my most Beloved loved ones. Before he stopped eating pork, he was the ONLY man for whom I'd ever make pork sausage or pork chops ... now he eats more healthy & enjoys a lot of soups.
PLEASE feel free to chime in with your favorite songs, videos, images, memories, FILMS, TV SHOWS, books, etc. Let's give it UP today in the name of the Lo Lifes, BIC VIC LO, @ThirstinHowl3rd the original PoloRican ... a man with a thousand names and a hundred thousand raps. ...
At the studio/lab in Medina/Brooklyn I constantly played music. There was a used music shop down the road. Prior to moving to NY for work at Complex, I had come to visit to stay with my Play Brother JASE and his at the time lady. ...
So when the job came up, and DOOM and GRIMM required for me to move to NY, all at once...I asked play bro bro and he said come live there and get a place in his building. I did and it became the studio, the office, the mixing/mastering lab, of course the kitchen/restaurant, etc.
I purchased a CD changer stereo my first day then filled it with 25 of my favorites. This "Dropped" and it was old yet new ... I had all the discs in the changer along with 3 SADE discs, 3 Anita Baker discs, and some Soul/Oldies compilations. NO RAP.