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Oct 3, 2020 12 tweets 2 min read Read on X
Dear ladies ,

This is what it means when you say “I love you too “ to a guy .

I will give you 10 .

A thread .
1. I love you too means that you will prioritize his progress above your own . You will ensure he doesn’t sabotage his destiny to please you . It means you will ensure that your presence in his life has a multiplier effect !
2. It means that you will offer to share the burdens in the relationship with him . If he needs help you offer it . You don’t scold or make him feel less because he doesn’t have as much resources as others
3. It means that you will not compare him with others to his face . You will ensure he never feels less than other men in your space or outside your space . If there is one thing you will give your man is the confidence that you think the world of him !
4. I love you too means you will at times let him breathe . He may want to hang out with his friends , play PS4 or just sleep . Loving him means you will let him be when he needs time alone .
5. I love you too means you will be loyal to him . 100% ! No double dating or triple dating . You are locked in and away with this one guy . Love means you will never betray your word or commitment to him . It is a decision and not a feeling .
6. I love you too means you will never ever allow him think small or accept a poor or inferior version of himself . You will tell him truths he needs to hear to get him chasing purpose . Love always builds !
7. I love you too means you will not allow sexual immorality in the relationship even though you feel like jumping him and having sex till he convulses . Love means you will help each other remain chaste till the wedding . Love builds character .
8. I love you too means that you will trust him and not suspect every call he takes or text he receives . It means you will accept him and trust in his own love for you never to cheat on you .
9. I love you too means you will pray for him . You will pray that he grows more and more in love with God and more and more in his appreciation of you . It means you will pray that he grows in the knowledge of all God has done for him in Christ .
10. If married , I love you too means you will give your body to him to pleasure him and rock his world . It means you understand that you are his only source of legitimate orgasm and you will deliver for him till death do you part .
11. I hope this was helpful ? Love is a powerful statement. Don’t use it if you don’t understand what you are saying . Love comes with expectations. If you use love you must prove it . Love bears fruit !

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