This is what it means when you say “I love you too “ to a guy .
I will give you 10 .
A thread .
1. I love you too means that you will prioritize his progress above your own . You will ensure he doesn’t sabotage his destiny to please you . It means you will ensure that your presence in his life has a multiplier effect !
2. It means that you will offer to share the burdens in the relationship with him . If he needs help you offer it . You don’t scold or make him feel less because he doesn’t have as much resources as others
3. It means that you will not compare him with others to his face . You will ensure he never feels less than other men in your space or outside your space . If there is one thing you will give your man is the confidence that you think the world of him !
4. I love you too means you will at times let him breathe . He may want to hang out with his friends , play PS4 or just sleep . Loving him means you will let him be when he needs time alone .
5. I love you too means you will be loyal to him . 100% ! No double dating or triple dating . You are locked in and away with this one guy . Love means you will never betray your word or commitment to him . It is a decision and not a feeling .
6. I love you too means you will never ever allow him think small or accept a poor or inferior version of himself . You will tell him truths he needs to hear to get him chasing purpose . Love always builds !
7. I love you too means you will not allow sexual immorality in the relationship even though you feel like jumping him and having sex till he convulses . Love means you will help each other remain chaste till the wedding . Love builds character .
8. I love you too means that you will trust him and not suspect every call he takes or text he receives . It means you will accept him and trust in his own love for you never to cheat on you .
9. I love you too means you will pray for him . You will pray that he grows more and more in love with God and more and more in his appreciation of you . It means you will pray that he grows in the knowledge of all God has done for him in Christ .
10. If married , I love you too means you will give your body to him to pleasure him and rock his world . It means you understand that you are his only source of legitimate orgasm and you will deliver for him till death do you part .
11. I hope this was helpful ? Love is a powerful statement. Don’t use it if you don’t understand what you are saying . Love comes with expectations. If you use love you must prove it . Love bears fruit !
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Many times we have heard this exhortation “ Be born again !” Or you even hear people say things like “ let’s get you born again “ .
The idea these phrases communicate is that there is a formulae to the new birth and a sinner can just be born again
by his own will .
What does the Bible actually say ?
John 3:3-5
3 Jesus answered and said unto him, Verily, verily, I say unto thee, Except a man be born again, he cannot see the kingdom of God.
4 Nicodemus saith unto him, How can a man be born when he is old?
can he enter the second time into his mother's womb, and be born?
5 Jesus answered, Verily, verily, I say unto thee, Except a man be born of water and of the Spirit, he cannot enter into the kingdom of God.
The phrase “ be born “ is the Greek word “gennethe “
I had objections to the term “channels of my spirit “ was used by Dunsin Oyekan when he first released this song .
I also spoke to my choir head not to sing it in our churches at the time
I had noticed a recent influence of certain middle eastern terms with certain gospel musicians .
I mean terms like “portals” ,“ascend”, “vibrations “,“energy” etc .
However ,I had to take a closer look at the lyrics of this particular song and give the writer the benefit of doubt
So what are the channels of the spirit ?
Does the spirit of man have channels ?
What is a channel ?
A channel is a gateway into a place . It is a means of accessing a place .
If I said that “the road to my house is blocked “ , I mean that there is no way to get to my house .
Let me start by saying that porn addiction is not a morality issue . It is a neurological issue . I didn’t say porn isn’t a moral issue , I said “porn addiction “ isn’t a moral issue .
A lot of shame and guilt
surrounds this addiction especially in the Christian community that most people suffer in silence .
Studies have shown in surveys of even clergy , that a high percentage of ministers are porn addicts . Now imagine what the percentage must be for the regular church guy .
One major challenge within the Christian community as it regards porn is that we have spiritualized it . We have made it about demons of lust because of the compulsive component of it without us understanding how addictions work .
I will attempt to explain as simply as possible
Africans became Christians long before Europeans .
Britain ( Britannia ) , France ( Franchia ) , Sweden , Iceland ( Vikings) where all idol worshippers when Ethiopia was a Christian Nation .
There where African Christians in the scriptures.
You have Simon the “Nigger “ in Acts 13:1 -3 who was from Cyrene . You had the Ethiopian eunuch who took the gospel to the nation and led his Queen Candace to Christ . The Ethiopian church even had a pope as far back as the third century !
Don’t make the marriage about your needs , your dreams alone . You must be ready to sacrifice for your significant other in the marriage . A self-centred man will frustrate his wife .
1. Secrecy - There is a difference between being private and being secretive . Anyone who doesn’t want people to know you are dating may have somethings they are hiding . It’s ok to be private but alarm bells should ring where there is secrecy .
2. Barter - The relationship is almost always about what is being exchanged . While there will be exchanges in every relationship, an undue focus on this will indicate that someone is there for something they can get and not what they can give .