How to deal with Porn addiction .

Let me start by saying that porn addiction is not a morality issue . It is a neurological issue . I didn’t say porn isn’t a moral issue , I said “porn addiction “ isn’t a moral issue .

A lot of shame and guilt surrounds this addiction especially in the Christian community that most people suffer in silence .

Studies have shown in surveys of even clergy , that a high percentage of ministers are porn addicts . Now imagine what the percentage must be for the regular church guy .

I love and welcome open conversations about Christianity . A religion so open has nothing to hide .

So let’s unpack this thread from the “ Christianity came to Africa because of colonizers “ . Is this true ?

https://twitter.com/IjeomaOgood/status/1469683916978245635

Well, it’s not .

Africans became Christians long before Europeans .

Britain ( Britannia ) , France ( Franchia ) , Sweden , Iceland ( Vikings) where all idol worshippers when Ethiopia was a Christian Nation .

There where African Christians in the scriptures.

10 things the single Man must know before marriage .

A thread ! 1. It is not about you !

My queen @_tolaniolaleye tells me this regularly .

Don’t make the marriage about your needs , your dreams alone . You must be ready to sacrifice for your significant other in the marriage . A self-centred man will frustrate his wife .

10 Red flags to note in relationships .

A thread ! 1. Secrecy - There is a difference between being private and being secretive . Anyone who doesn’t want people to know you are dating may have somethings they are hiding . It’s ok to be private but alarm bells should ring where there is secrecy .

Conflict Resolution in Relationships/marriages .

A thread . 1. You can actually have a wonderful love life if you understand a few important things . Every house is built by rules . As with houses so it is with relationships and marriages . If you violate the rules then there will be consequences. #maritalbliss

How to marry well .

A thread . It is not news that a lot of marriages begin to struggle after less than a year . Especially after the euphoria of the wedding has cleared from the mind and becomes a distant memory . When this happens it becomes clear that you made a choice you will live with .

Marriage and parental consent .

A thread . Marriage is a very powerful institution. It is sacred and must never be entered into without proper consideration. A marriage would always give birth to another being that our parents married and brought us into the world .

Hmmm this Esther issue . It’s not that deep . However , It is true that the king spoke with her and she found favor before him . It is also implied that she slept with him because legally And by conscription Esther was already his concubine . The king would see each “virgin “ and spend the night with them . If she pleased him she would be made the queen and if not she became a life long concubine who only saw him if he requested her presence Esther 2:16-19

So after the presidents speech what next ? After the protests what next ? What is the game plan ?

I will tell you .

A thread . The events of the past two weeks actually showed us a lot of you are paying attention .

First we where able to crowd fund 150M for the protests . We got lawyers , doctors and the middle class to volunteer for a cause free of charge . #Gameplan

Dear ladies ,

This is what it means when you say “I love you too “ to a guy .

I will give you 10 .

A thread . 1. I love you too means that you will prioritize his progress above your own . You will ensure he doesn’t sabotage his destiny to please you . It means you will ensure that your presence in his life has a multiplier effect !

Dear Guys,

This is what it means when you say “I love you to a lady “

I will show you 10 things .

A thread . 1. I love you means that you will put her needs and desires above yours . She will be first and you second . You will do things you don’t love to do so as to please her . You will consider her needs before you consider yours . It means sacrifice and selflessness .

10 things you shouldn't do to or with your pastor .

A thread . 1. You should not worship your pastor . He is a gift of God to be honored but not worshipped . To worship your pastor is to make him the centre whereas Jesus is to be the centre of your worship. A good pastor ensures that Jesus is centre of your life and not him .

My experience with card fraud .

Gtb @gtbank

And the police @NigerianPolice

A thread ! As some of you know already yesterday I was robbed of some items . They included my phone's ,ATMs and laptop . I have since reported this case to my banks and the police . The case is ongoing .

Pornography and masturbation .

A thread . This is a very sensitive topic . It is a hot topic from the religious angle and also very popular when you explore it from both the psychological and biological angle . I will try to do Justice to this .

These are the issues @costiwhinn and co have with @stevenfurtick and @Hillsong . It is a theological issue and I think that it is wisdom not to carelessly call another minister or ministry heretic because of your disagreement with what they teach . I will highlight them .

https://twitter.com/PhilipAmiola/status/1301650178617880576

1. In the evangelical movement that @costiwhinn belongs to they teach that poverty and Prosperity can be Gods will . This means that God could actually send pack and poverty your way to “teach “ you something .

Tongues and interpretation are easy to walk in . Very very easy . It enriches your fellowship with God and your usefulness amongst believers . It may seem strange to those who haven’t been activated yet to walk in it or who where forced into something mechanical But when activated the operation of the gift of utterance is beautiful and such a tremendous blessing ! Never ever get talked out of it . Continually exercise yourself in it .

Dear believer, be very strong in your consecration .

Don’t become lax and secularized.

There are things to refrain from listening to and watching .

There are things you must never be found or quoted promoting .

Take heed to your consecration. There are songs that you must not be found singing .

Movies you shouldn’t be seen watching .

You are the temple of God . Consecration is a new creation of reality .

The believer must walk in what he has been given . You have been made holy , walk and live in a holy way .

Genotype wahala, relationships and marriage .

A thread ! For those who may not know . There is something called genotype . It simply is the make up of the proteins in your blood . There are at least five types . We have AA, AS , SS , SC, AC . Everyone has a genotype .

From my tweet on what sisters yearn for with Christian brothers and the responses , I see the problem glaringly.

Some guys think women are like their home boys .

Dear brothers , women are a completely different specie o . Christian or not . A Christian sister is spiritual and also natural . She loves the lord but has emotions and natural desires .

As a wise Pauline disciple learn to feed her spiritually and also attend to those desires she has .

She is a Christian Woman .

When Christian women complain about the game of Christian guys , this is what they are saying .

Short thread ! The typical Christian brother feels that when dating a sister all he needs to concentrate on is her fire for God , evangelism, bible study etc .

This is not wrong as they are both believers . It is to be expected .

15 things you may not know in 15 days about an intending spouse .

A thread ! 1. Do they have a criminal record ? Committed crimes anywhere around the world ?