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Tete Fadzie

14 Oct, 17 tweets, 3 min read

FOUR CLASSES OF MEN THAT MAY NOT GET MARRIED ( A Thread)

1.Mama’s boy:He always compares his girlfriend to his mother, who can do no wrong in his eyes. He will be expect you do his laundry,cook for and do other things exactly like his mother. An sight of trouble he runs to his mother.

Problem :A mama’s boy is used to being taken care of and expects it not only from his mother but from his girlfriend or wife, as well. He has probably never done chores in his life, does not know how, and does not intend to do them in the future.

Everything he does he first get permission from his mother first. He cannot make decisions on his own. He is basically a man child.

Solution:A man should be independant regarding his marital decisions and other life decisions.

Learn to accountable and responsible for your own life, stop letting your mother control your life. It's okay to consult your mother but learn to have boundaries and limits.No woman wants to live in the shadows of another woman for the rest of her life.

2.The Workaholic: He is hard working, determined and ambitious has a great career and earns good money. Everything in his life comes second to his job,he is always at the office or at home working.

The problem :Of course it's admirable if a man works hard and pay his bills with the money he works for, but what kind of marital life are going to have if you are workaholic, who has no time for his friends and family.

Even when he is in relationship he barely gives his girlfriend time, love and affection. He thinks buying her gifts will compensate for not being around

Solution :Find time for yourself and social life, all work and no play will make John a dull boy.

Don't allow work to consume you find time for your friends and family, learn how to manage time and know when to rest.Being in a stable relationship requires time and effort, women want attention and to feel loved.

3. The control freak AKA Mr Know It all : He takes no single advice from anyone particularly women , he wants things to his way only.Such a man doesn't allow anyone to counsel him,he is very stubborn.

Problem:He feels he's always right no matter what,he doesn't listen to other people and wants to make decisions on his own all the time,he has unreasonable demands and expectations. This kind of behavior only pushes women away.

Solution:You need to stop bossing people around, things cannot always go your way its not always about you. You need to be more considerate about other people's feelings, accept the fact that you don't know it all and allow other people to correct you.

No woman wants a slave master for a husband. A relationship is about team work and effort learn to be a team player.A good leader listens to other people,accepts when he is wrong and apologizes & is not self centered.

This is not my work and special acknowledge and appreciation goes to the original author.

4. Mr Yolo - A very hard working man but he doesn't economize or save his income.He overspends,always broke,he doesn't make an investments, his favorite saying is you only live once YOLO!

Problem:Yes it's good to treat yourself to nice things and enjoy life, but don't reckless and careless by overspending and waste money on trivial things.You constantly find yourself broke or in debt. You don't have anything valuable to your name.