Some of these might seem super specific but they matter π€
1. Hold our hand with yours on top
We overlook hand holding and don't realise there are nuances with it! π
Your hand and your thumb will naturally be "on top" of ours...
This hand holding is something I think I have seen @alpharivelino mention before π so he knows, or at least somebody talked about it?
2. When we aren't holding hands, make us walk a little bit behind you
This makes us both remember that you lead and we follow π
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3. If you need to move us somewhere, take us by the wrist π€€
This is very subtle but everybody who sees it knows you are in charge and it's not so shocking that somebody would be rude and tell you off for "being mean" π
Why should you create a Dominant/Submissive relationship? ππ
(Thread)
1. To polarise your masculine and feminine traits β―οΈ
When a man is leading us both in and out of the bedroom he seems more motivated and energised. He has a reason to reach for bigger goals because...
We have his back and are supporting him 100% π
He wants to impress us and he really does, which makes us want to fulfill our role even more! It's an upwards cycle that fuels itself! β₯οΈ
He gets to be aggressive in the bedroom and he gets a boost of energy when...
We listen to his instructions and perform well for him π
We too get to stop worrying about things outside of the home and can turn our attention to making a beautiful place for you to return to later in the day and super fun place to visit at night π
I remember a sad day when I was talking with one of my girlfriends as she was in tears π₯
It was about the hard time that she was having with her man πΏ
She was telling me that she wanted to leave him, but was terrified about how he might react π¬
He would never harm her, but he would often get very emotional and not be able to control his sorrow very well πͺ
She confessed to me that she'd thought about cheating on him, even though she knew that doing so would really make him breakdown if he ever found out π«π«π«
(Like maybe even commit suicide, it was that bad)
Thankfully I managed to talk her out of that bad idea, which was probably the first time I saved her man's life π
The second time I saved his life was when I confronted him...