1/ Venting time
I don't have Reddit, so bear with my AITA bit.
About 7 months ago someone (read my father) said something horrible to me about getting tf over my rape trauma and victim blaming me for it. My PTSD spiked, and hours later I was in the hospital getting my stomach
I don't have Reddit, so bear with my AITA bit.
About 7 months ago someone (read my father) said something horrible to me about getting tf over my rape trauma and victim blaming me for it. My PTSD spiked, and hours later I was in the hospital getting my stomach
2/ pumped. He still has not made the least effort to apologize for his words.
I am a total empath so I usually forgive without apologies, because it feels like I am hurting them if I don't, which in turn hurts me. But this was too much. This I cannot forgive. I almost died.....
I am a total empath so I usually forgive without apologies, because it feels like I am hurting them if I don't, which in turn hurts me. But this was too much. This I cannot forgive. I almost died.....
3/ So I stopped speaking to him. Not a single word for 7 months (in a single household that gets tense). The rest of my family thinks IATA because I should just let it go. I don't think a simple apology is too much for nearly killing me, but they disagree, because he just doesn't
4/ do apologies.
I know I am not TA, but everyone being cold and snappy at me for this is not exactly good for my mental health. I just feel so incredibly tired. And I want to leave so bad, but leaving cost money, so I am stuck.
I know I am not TA, but everyone being cold and snappy at me for this is not exactly good for my mental health. I just feel so incredibly tired. And I want to leave so bad, but leaving cost money, so I am stuck.
5/ Vent over. Thanks for listening, here's a kitten.
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