Those who are naively calling for reconciliation--aside from neglecting the reality that Trump's sycophants are still, largely, not accepting the results--don't *want* to understand how different Trump was for POC, queer folks, trans people, the undocumented, etc.
The pall of fear was (and, frankly, remains) palpable. People started experiencing hate crimes and abuse where they never had before. Others came to fear detention and deportation. Still more are facing scapegoating and derision from on high.
I had relatives experience people at the grocery store telling them to "go back where you came from" because they were speaking Spanish. Trans friends of mine harassed, beaten. Loved ones arrested on false pretences. Jewish friends sincerely worried about their safety at shul.
I've had to have conversations with my partners that no one *should* have. The "if our existence is criminalised, how do we survive/get out?" conversation. I had another of those on Election Night. Many of my friends did too.
I sincerely wondered, if Trump won or stole a second term, if I'd even be allowed to finish my PhD or allowed to continue to teach, lamenting that I hadn't gotten my shit together sooner to graduate earlier.
All this against a backdrop of watching my rights and the rights of my loved ones chipped away at. Watching my Asian students feel anxiety and exhaustion about being scapegoated for COVID. Not knowing what to tell queer and trans youth about what the future may hold.
Having to console my Muslim and Jewish students after yet another terrorist attack at a house of worship sacred to them. Listening to my trans loved ones seriously consider suicide or detransition. Seeing my Puerto Rican relatives struggle with white co-workers who turned on them
The list goes on.

I do not wish death on the people who caused this horror and trauma--who are, as we speak, fighting to keep it going. Whose central motivation is terrifying members of groups they despise.

But do not ask me to break bread with them. Not now.
None of this terror goes away completely, even if Trump is dislodged from office. But the immense relief so many feel now comes from the fact that we know we have more of a fighting chance with him gone.

That's what's at stake. Not just political aesthetics.

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4 Nov
Social media is hardwired to our ids, it would seem. I understand that many of us carry trauma and anxiety from 2016; nihilism and cratering pessimism feel safe because hope has betrayed us so many times over.

I get it; I feel it too.
But while a landslide may be out of reach, this election is far from over, and unfortunately the public mood has a lot to say about what's to come. Concede nothing until every single vote is counted, lest you do the enemy's work for them.
It's easy to forget that social media is public, and that our venting and catharsis has impacts that exceed our intentions and momentary needs.
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There's a reason that the song "Common People" literally has my name on it at my karaoke bar.
I grew up in the South Bronx but caught a bit of luck. I had teachers who took an interest in me. My 5th grade history teacher gave me his old college textbook on Russian history; it was where I learned the words 'glasnost' and 'perstroika' from.
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25 Oct
As many parts of the world settle into the COVID winter of our discontent, it's worth thinking critically about public health messaging. As I've said for months, despair-based messaging (of the "we're never going back to normal" vintage) is unlikely to do anything useful.
Even leaving aside the Rorschach-ness of this statement (i.e. that it can mean so many different things depending on what you think of as "normal" and whether or not you value those things), it's more likely to erode people's stamina than anything else.
We've heard "it's a marathon, not a sprint" since the first knockings of the pandemic, but that wisdom gels rather poorly with "the marathon has no finish line; sucks to suck."
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and 2) Ferber's interview makes clear how deeply TERFism has intellectually impoverished the mainstream media discussion of feminism in the UK (and, to a nontrivial degree, elsewhere too).

Look at how narrow the terms of discussion are. The same two TERF talking points and JKR.
Ferber's sad questions reveal a feminism stripped of any intellectual content or moral horizon beyond the comments on JK Rowling's tweets.
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18 Sep
I have to appreciate the author's commitment to the word "bullshit" here, but it's simply honest when talking about the issue of curfews.
I've said it before and I'll say it again: the point of a curfew is to remove even the pretence of restraint on police power. That's it. Curfews are The Purge, as run by cops. They serve no practical or moral purpose otherwise.
The logic of their use amid the pandemic is that they reduce movement and provide another mechanism for punishing non-essential travel. But they create "bunching" effects at the beginning and end of the curfew, causing crowding where there might otherwise be less.
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5 Sep
At the risk of giving Krug any more oxygen...what she is bringing up for a lot of mixed-race and white-passing POC is extraordinarily painful. For me? Years of having to overcome self-hatred as a Puerto Rican, only to still feel not-Latina-enough, and this woman just... pretends.
The extreme damage this does to us--the mistrust it sows, the doubt it inspires--it is a form of white supremacy. After all, I've seen a lot of POC say they feel nervous enough as it is claiming those identities. I've felt the same. Am I too blanquita to even talk about this?
What's happened here is a case of a white person colonising Blackness and Latinidad and forcing us out of it because of her deception. It's stomach churning.
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