What’s happening?
The first time i saw this girl was at a supermarket, we exchanged numbers and started talking, we met on few occasions and it was all nice cus’ i like to be around her, dark skinned and hot no doubt and everything everywhere is amazing...
The first time we were indoor together, i made my move and she told me she’s a Relationship of over 5years now (i guess) and i said okay, but well, i paid for a room already and that sucks for me but i gatto try my luck because once again, She is hot.
My luck clicked, but me knowing fully well she is not mine, it just happened and i playfully told her I don’t want to stop, i call to tell her i miss her and then we make arrangements, and she was cool with it, i just wanted to be her friend.
Later on she became comfortable and talked about how toxic her relationship was, which is not so good for anyone, i do give her Advise the way i dim fit, she told me everything became this bad when she cheated on him, i noted that but well, we are all human, Been there.
She said, she has cheated thrice excluding the one with me, he never found out on his own but she confessed the first to him because of how sorry she felt, Then afterwards HE cheats on a regular and y’all can’t break up with cus’ of the time, family pressure and love u’ve shared
She blame herself every other time shit happens. Anyway, Cool ! I am okay with that,if you are, Still i’m ur friend and I won’t judge you.

Now here comes the most interesting part;
All of a sudden she came at me with this bullshit of me not caring, or me wanting just sex!
Also, whenever i remind her that she’s got a bf, she flare up saying that she wont tell me anything again, that i use all she tells me against her, As how?
She moved to creating issues like ‘She doesn’t know anything about me apart from the little i let on, Yeah! Ofc,
That is who i am, i listen and ask questions, you never did and tbh i am okay with that. I hate talking about me,Now you are forcing relationships down my throat for why now?
Funniest shit She pulled was her telling me they broke up, i was like cool! Then i later found out they didn’t, she then told me that they only had a fight. Well either ways i was cool with it and my response was No Shi!
Lol, she was like ‘No shi’, that is what you say every time, No shit.
If only you could take me serious, i would have been ready to be serious with you.
Me: Lol 😂.

Tbh, Well i know what to do, i just want to gist y’all and also create a conversation.
I don’t want to lose this girl, her friendship, and our togetherness if you know what i mean, bros she is not really 💯 facially but you see that body, thick asf below the waist down. Now she is coming at me with dating or no more __,I don’t want to date, why?
Read the whole thread again!!!!!!
Ladies abeg, when you define a relationship/situationship , pls learn how not to go back on your own words and change it, no one is taking advantage of no one, we are all human and we all have urges.
it is better to be real than to lie about been deeply in love with you when all i love is myself and then i like your body and i feel been around you. You get?
Everything might change with time but let me feel that you feel me and not the sex talking or you just bored and looking for a way out,lets agree on that together not compulsory tear our agreement because you feel like men are the only ones benefiting from this consensus.

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Don’t know who needs to hear this but Men pls get a job before searching for a relationship, work on yourself first, you’d see that you would have to pick from a list of girls instead of accepting the ones that are available;
You would never have to ask any out officially
Wake up, start with a set of exercise, 100 push-ups and 50 sit-ups daily. (Rookie No’s)
That would make you think straight i promise you, then construct a short term goal and a long term goal.
Don’t worry about your single status, build yourself mentally and physically.
Brush up your spoken English
Visit a barber once in a week or tops two.
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