If you have people in your lives—close friends and family—who have been influenced by disinformation, do not argue with them. It will not work.
If you do want to make that person a deprogramming project, step 1 is to establish rapport and trust.
Step 0, of course is to accept that it's a long game to try to counter months or years of messages and social reinforcement that have a lot of money and power behind them.
The best way to establish rapport and trust is to demonstrate genuine interest in their lives.
Centering the needs of someone who has aligned themselves with the baddies may make you feel like a traitor to the cause.
But again, arguing with facts is likely to backfire badly.
Everyone hyped on surveys or polling should actually read Rensis Likert's PhD dissertation in which he describes the method we've reduced to "the Likert scale".
If I could change ONE thing about how everyone doing "creative problem solving" worked, it would be to stop brainstorming ideas and start brainstorming questions.
Brainstorming and ranking ideas is the worst and it puts team members in competition with each other to look smart.
But if you get everyone in a room (virtual or otherwise) and say "OK, what are all the things we're assuming or simply lack information about?" and then "Which of these areas of ignorance are highest priority?" that is both immensely useful and enhances collaboration.
But the idea that "ideation" is a good and productive use of people's time is so baked into how people think about design and business.
Because it's easy and fun and everyone secretly wants to "win" at group ideation.
The missing role at most organizations is a communication/collaboration facilitator—a person to help create intentionally humane and effective communication protocols.
So much of work is communication in many modes and channels. And it's really really hard to get right.
IT picks software tools. Facilities runs meeting rooms (in the before).
No one thinks about how to orchestrate the most functional communication among various roles/tasks/etc. People just treat it like something that everyone knows how to do well.
Creating the conditions for healthy communication among people *is* interaction design.
Just having physical meeting rooms, or slack channels or zoom is like giving the end user a command prompt.
That's a bad metaphor because the command line is less taxing than zoom.