When you believe your girl is more important than you, you lean in to her subconsciously. By leaning in, you inadvertently reveal your feelings of inferiority. Women find this very unattractive. So don't do it. Stand up straight, gentlemen. Don't lean in!
THEY ARE NOW BROKEN UP
When you feel your bandmate is more important than you, you subconsciously lean in to him. By leaning in, you unintentionally reveal your artistic insecurities. Don't do that. Be proud of your musical accomplishments and stand up straight. Don't lean in!
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You can literally be British royalty, but if you believe your commoner wife is more important than you, you will lean in to kiss her in front of the entire world. By leaning in, you reveal that you aren't ready to be king of anything. Don't lean in!
A ROYAL MESS
Notice Harry's slumped shoulders and droopy eyes. Notice his head tilt. And notice Meghan's hand control. She is completely in control, completely in charge. Our bodies don't lie. Our bodies reveal much more than we realize. Don't be like Harry. Don't lean in!
REMEMBER HER FACE
That's the face of bitter disappointment. Disgust, even. She doesn't want to see your weak emotional side. She wants to see your strong confident side. Be her hero. Don't be her baby. Don't lean in!
"Her tits excite you. Your confidence excites her" –Rivelino
THEY ARE NOW DIVORCED
When you lean into your girl, you reveal psychological inferiority or worse, emotional neediness. Women find this unattractive. You must stay strong and vigiliant. Don't lean in!
"She loves you when you're strong. She leaves you when you're weak" –Rivelino
THEY ARE NOW DIVORCED
When you lean into your girl like a boy hugging his mom, what you are effectively communicating to her is "Please don't even leave me". Women find this very unattractive. You must stay strong, you must stay vigilant. Or you could find yourself dumped!
THEY ARE NOW DIVORCED
Notice the reverse polarity in this photo. She is standing tall and strong against the tree, and he is leaning into her with his body and tilting his head to touch hers. Also, look at how she's holding his hands in her hands. Three big polarity mistakes!
THIS IS NOT A JOKE
"Don't lean in!" is real advice for real men - and it really works. Our society today teaches men to be weak and submissive. My goal is to help men find their masculine strength and masculine frame. This helps men find LOVE. Green lines are just the beginning!
BEING A MAN IS NOT EASY
Your girl wants you to be powerful but also wants to steal your power. One way she will try to steal your power is by establishing hand control. You can't let her. You must always be in control of her hands, not the reverse. Don't give up hand control!
THEY WANT YOU WEAK
"In this image they are expressing the utmost comfort with one another" — No. In this image, he is being submissive to her. You can't trust what you read in magazines or see on TV. They want weak and docile men. Weak men are easier to control. Don't lean in!
LEANING IN IS NOT ABOUT SEX
Leaning in is about power – about who feels more powerful and who feels less powerful. One man will lean into another man if he feels the other man is more powerful than him. If you want to appear more powerful, don't lean into anybody!
DON'T LEAN IN
I used to think leaning in showed I loved her. And in a way, it does. I want to nurture her, adore her, give her everything. The problem is women invariably misinterpret this as low value behavior. When we lean in more than they do, they start taking us for granted
HE IS A MESS
His body is leaning in. His head is tilting away. Sexually, he wants her. Logically, he disapproves of her arrogance. His body and mind are at war. He is a mess. In contrast, notice how her head and body are aligned. She is centered. She is living in her own reality
THE WAY TO LOVE HER
Be her rock. Be her protector. Be her leader. Don't lean into her world. Bring her into your world. Focus on your mission. Make her work for your love and attention. Become higher value every day. The more success you have, the more you have to share with her
DON'T LOSE YOUR BALANCE
Look at the picture below. Remove him from the photo (bottom left), and she is still centered in her own reality. Remove her from the photo (bottom right), and he is off center, off balance. Don't lose your balance. Don't lean in!
THE TRUTH WILL SET YOU FREE
Unfortunately, it's gettting harder to find the truth. They only print the truth when they try to ridicule and confuse men. But the truth about polarity and evolutionary psychology is hardwired in humans. The truth is inside us dailymail.co.uk/femail/article…
IS LEANING IN ABOUT HEIGHT?
"He leans in because he's taller" is what a lot of people say. A lot of people are wrong. Leaning in is not about height. It's about feeling important vs feeling insecure. Look at these two photos below. Is the taller person leaning in?
TEN BEGINNER MISTAKES
1-Idealizing her
2-Hiding your sexual interest
3-Trying to squeeze into her life instead of pulling her into your life
4-Telling her how you feel instead of making her feel something (credit: Yohami)
5-Giving her compliments instead of giving her drama
6-Trusting her instead of being skeptical
7-Waiting too long to escalate
8-Allowing her to be boring without calling her out
9-Pursuing the wrong woman
10-Pursuing only one woman
TEN BEGINNER MISTAKES
1-Idealizing her
When you idealize her, you put yourself below her. This is bad because if she is more important than you, if she is better than you –– why would she want to fuck you?
Also, when you idealize her, you don't actually see her or get to know her, you only see your perfect version of her. And nobody wants that. If you've ever had someone idealize you, it's a strange feeling. It doesn't feel good. In a way, it's even offensive. People want to feel understood. They want to feel special despite their quirks and their flaws. They don't want their flaws to go unnoticed
TEN BEGINNER MISTAKES
1-Idealizing her (part two)
You want to see her as a beautiful yet flawed creature, because that's what she is. She has her own insecurities, fears, frustrations, dark desires, crazy sexual fantasies. These are all the things she wants you to discover about her –– and you can't do that if you idealize her and see her as some sort of angel
Also, as much as possible, you need to put yourself at her level –– or higher. This is where your inner self belief needs to come in. To use a phrase I learned from Todd V, you need to tell yourself "I am enough." She is flawed, you are flawed. You are good enough for her
Another way I look at it is something I call the Threshold Theory. I may not be the hottest man she's ever met, but I'm good looking enough to date her. I may not be the richest man she's ever met, but I can give her experiences other guys can't give her. I may not have the biggest cock in the world, but it's big enough to thrill her and excite her
She is flawed. I am flawed. I am good enough to make her dreams come true
“Modern women unconsciously leave a trail of clues in their socials. The lean away. Not having their man in their profile picture or bio. Not celebrating major events with their husband - her latest post - she's at an event on her 24th birthday with friends but not with Louis. Louis is sealing concrete.”
LOVE IS WAR
“They met in 2019 at university. Perfectly balanced. She was a 6-7, Louis was a 7-8 on the smv scale. Tall, popular, star athlete, he had it all going for him. She fell under his frame and when a woman leans in, she falls in love.”
Perfect explanation by Sam @Silentmind92
More examples of him leaning into her after she became famous
You need to look for women in general, learn how to talk to them, how to attract them, how to date them
Once you’re able to date lots of women, then you can start to compare and contrast them
That’s when you can start to see which girls are more modest, wholesome and trustworthy — and which girls are more vain, loud, self absorbed, superficial and attention seeking
One thing you will start to notice:
You probably won’t find a modest wholesome girl at a crowded dark place with loud music, drugs & alcohol
You are more likely to find a wholesome girl at a healthy daytime activity focused on self improvement
For example:
Tennis class
Ceramics class
Yoga class
Museum tour
Hiking trail
Language class
Cooking class
Weekend book fair
Farmer’s market
You are also more likely to find a wholesome girl doing “regular” daytime activities like:
Grocery shopping
Walking her dog
Walking home after work
Reading or studying at a cafe
Shopping for clothes
At night, you may find her at more upscale cultural activities, like:
University lecture or talk
Film festival
Poetry reading at a cafe
Book reading at a bookstore
Opera or ballet
Another important thing to realize. She probably won’t go out of her way to find you. You will probably need to find her and talk to her first
That’s your masculine burden — to go out and find her
Remember:
1-Her job is to look pretty
2-Your job is to talk to her
HOW TO MEET A GOOD WOMAN
One of the biggest mistakes I see beginners make is relying on dating apps to meet women
Dating apps are mostly a waste of time for men. They can be frustrating and demoralizing
Instead:
1-Develop a sexy hobby
2-Learn how to do cold approach
"The primary reason why women stop having sex with their husbands is because they don't feel emotionally safe, and the reason that they don't feel emotionally safe is because their attachment needs are not being met inside of the relationship.
Attachment needs are our deepest needs inside of a romantic relationship, and if those things are not fulfilled, we will not feel emotionally safe. And especially for women, when there is a lack of emotional safety, they start feeling very unsafe giving their bodies to their partner and they start to feel extremely unattracted to their partner. Like basically, they can't get physically turned on by their partners anymore."
–Sarah Hensley
My first comment, she's not entirely wrong
She is speaking "her truth", as some people like to say
So that's step one: really listening to what she is trying to say and getting the sense of whether she is being genuine and sincere or fake and artificial (or even deceitful and manipulative)
I feel she is being genuine in her intentions. That's important because that means that there could be something to learn from her
But let's go deeper
Listen to her voice, feel her energy
To me, she sounds anxious, tense, uptight. The word "shrill" comes to mind
She sounds the opposite of "emotionally safe"
She doesn't sound calm, relaxed, PROTECTED
Does she have a strong confident man in her life guiding her and protecting her?
It's almost as if she is making this video for herself
Men, if you don't have female friends and can't see yourself having female friends –– could this be because you see women as sex objects and not as regular people?
ASK RIVELINO
"Women have little of interest to offer a man other than sex."
That is the exact opposite of true. This just means you're evaluating women by male metrics
ASK RIVELINO
"My attention is like currency. I can't dish it out freely to random women."
This assumes that women have nothing of value to offer apart from sex. This is the same incorrect mindset as the previous man