Hey lovely people! 😊🙏🏽 So here we are, ending 2020 with soaring COVID cases, crushing lockdowns, & corrupt politicians. Folks, this is rock bottom. So... how can start 2021 with hope & joy? Take heart. We're going to get through this winter valley together. 💪🏽❤️ /THREAD.
Nine months in, we are now around halfway through the crisis phase of COVID. That might seem scary, but have faith. Once we make it through this “rock bottom” period, the rest of part 2 will be brighter & easier. /1
The toughest period is the winter valley… the darkest, coldest months, highest infection rates, harshest lockdowns. Vaccines coming, but not here. This is a hands-down the toughest stretch, but it is not forever. By April-May 2021, we will be back in the light. /2
But that means we need to be strong for the next 3 months. Not because people expect us to be… But because we deserve to come out of this as sane and well human beings. So let’s make a winter valley strategy together right now. /3
First, we have to try our best to stay healthy. The virus does not care about our squabbles & corrupt political leaders. It will permanently damage our bodies & kill our families. Our job is to protect our lives & our loves, & the next 3 months will be critical. /4
That means masks, distancing, & no cutting corners with scientific advice. This can be tough, with crappy public health guides & corrupt political officials. But it’s not about them. It’s about us. Our lungs. Our families. We can rely on science to help us make safer choices. /5
Second, we need to build mental health infrastructure specific to this time period. Most of us went into hard lockdowns back in March, when days were getting brighter and warmer. The start of 2021 is a new challenge & so we need a new set of tools. / 6
We can start by outlining our core needs to survive through January-March. Physical. Spiritual. Social. Financial. Emotional. List the essentials, not the ideal versions. This is a disaster survival list... But don’t worry, we will still try to make it nice! 🌸☃️🧘🏽‍♀️/7
For every unmet need on our lists, *work the problem*. 🧐 Can we take a different approach? If there is no time, what could we potentially cut or postpone? How can we be more efficient? Strategize. Persist. Ingenuity is the key to adaptation and survival. 🌟 /8
Part of survival is trying to make our lives as joyful as possible, even under harsh conditions. Our adaptation strategies can be creative, uplifting, & even fun! “Working the problem” doesn't mean living in the problem. It means finding a solution, & living in the solution. 🙏🏽/9
Whatever solutions we devise, they will require *consistency*. This part of the marathon requires a steady, humble pace. Achievable goals. Regular schedules. One day at a time. And max flexibility on the inevitable bad days. ⛈️🌪️ Survival, not perfection.☔️ /10
It is WAY easier to do this with a team & you CAN make a team. Set up a regular virtual check-in with 1-5 friends, ideally every morning. If you’re new to this, try a daily 15 min call around a meditation reading of your choice. 🧘🏽‍♀️ It will soon be the best part of your day! /11
Finally, the new year is always a great time to do a personal review of who we are & who we want to become in this world. Periods of hardship have the potential to be times of rapid, exponential personal growth. 📈Tough times reveal a person’s character, but also build it. 💪🏽 /12
From that perspective, this winter valley may be a blessing hidden inside a challenge. Three months in warrior mode. And the payoff? Courage, compassion, patience, resilience, humility, ingenuity, and an unshakeable inner strength that will last a lifetime. Deal. 😊❤️🙏🏽 /13
And on that note, I wish you all a blessed start to this new year! I will be with you in spirit as we venture through this valley, together and in the light. We are not alone and we have every reason to hope. 🌟 /x

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31 Dec 20
"Tolerated again"?? I'm sorry, but the correct response was "You're fired". I could not be more disgusted at this shameful and corrupt conduct. It makes a mockery of the sacrifices emergency workers and their families have made over the past 9 months.
And I just want to add, a government that lacks legitimacy - indeed moral authority - is incapable of governing and leading people in a crisis. No one will sacrifice for them. No one will trust the process. And that political disaster hurts everyone.
Everything about our countries and democracies is at some level imaginary. They work only because we all collectively believe in them. When that belief is compromised, it can quickly fall apart. Corruption is not a side issue, especially in the middle of a disaster.
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Hey lovely folks! With vaccines on the way, we can finally see a light at the end of this pandemic tunnel. But we probably won’t get there before Christmas. So, for those of us alone & in lockdown over the holidays, how can we make it through this time in good cheer? 😊❤️/Thread
This is obviously going to be a different holiday season for us. Some are separated from family & friends they cannot visit. Others have loved ones who are emergency workers who have to stay on the front lines. Many of us are afraid of loneliness. But there is hope. /1
Holidays under hardship conditions can seem scary… but they can also be beautiful, in a strange, life-changing way. But we need create space for these moments of sublime. That means taking steps to ensure you actually have a break this season. /2
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Hello lovely folks! Most of us are now deep in lockdown 2.0. Since writing about the six-month wall, many people asked me about how to take a “mental shore leave”. Here’s my plan, which might help you think creatively about yours. Good luck! 😊🙏🏽❤️ THREAD
Most of us cannot take an actual leave from our pandemic-stressed work and family lives. But to get through this six-month wall & emerge happy, it is imperative to take a break. So, how am I going create a psychic retreat for the next 4 weeks to recharge my batteries? /1
Well, I have come up with 2 parallel mental shore leave strategies: daily reprieves & weekly retreats. First, I need more rest & quiet time each DAY. Second, I need a full day off once a WEEK. In my crazy busy life, this sounds impossible. But here’s how I am doing it. /2
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To the brides & grooms who have to adapt their weddings for lockdown 2.0: Take heart! We did it in June on a lawn. Be courageous in your love. 💖💪🏽 Mini-thread.
First, I admit that I ugly cried trying to learn how to do my own hair & makeup, especially given that I’m more of a bookworm than a pretty girl. I’m so grateful to @ProfAgard & @RTVLaw for listening to me cry on the phone & reassuring me it would be ok. It was.
Second, I also did not get to wear my big beautiful wedding dress with the train. It couldn’t be hemmed under lockdown, so I ordered a white dress off the Internet, doing my best with the sizing chart. Arrived on time, with a trusty zipper in the back.
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The 6 month mark in any sustained crisis is always difficult. We have all adjusted to this "new normal", but might now feel like we're running out of steam. Yet, at best, we are only 1/3 the way through this marathon. How can we keep going? THREAD /x
First, in my experience, this is a very normal time to struggle or slump. I *always* hit a wall 6 months into a tough assignment in a disaster zone. The desire to "get away" or "make it stop" is intense. I've done this many times, and at 6 months, it's like clockwork. /2
This time, our crisis is global and there is nowhere to run. That's OK. I've had to power through that 6 month hump before and there is life on the other side. Right now, it feels like we looking ahead at long, dark wintery tunnel. But it's not going to be like that. /3
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My dept has advertised this job. Please apply. But, as a Brown Muslim woman in this dept, I also have to some truth to share. Real talk. ❤️🙏🏽 THREAD.
First, for the record, I am a tenured Assoc Prof in this dept and have served on half a dozen EDI initiatives at the university. I am also a multiple award-winning researcher & lecturer. I have 2 teaching prizes AND 3 distinguished research prizes. /1
Bad news up front. You can tell from the job ad, this approach to EDI hiring is problematic. My friend and colleague Dr. Rinaldo Walcott highlighted the problems with the ad with this simple tweet. /2
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