tw: restraint

My upset and anxiety around Music being nominated for two #GoldenGlobes isn't about me being bitter that something I hate is being recognised, it's about the legitimacy it gives to a film that could lead to people thinking it's okay to pin down autistic people.
Films, tv shows, cultural things like that have an impact.

When it is depicted as right and even loving to lie down on top of an autistic person in distress, it embeds it in people's minds as a good and correct response if they were to come across a similar situation.
Tw: restraint, sia, death, murder

When autistic people have routinely been killed by variants of that same restraint and mentality, you're damned right I care about this film getting the kind of publicity that a #GoldenGlobes nomination bestows upon it.
This isn't about 'cancelling' the film or bringing down Sia or anything that I've seen people claim.

This is about wanting to ensure that the potential harm from this film is mitigated as best it can be given the situation.
Because you know full well that some abled person who has seen the film and gone 'awww, that's great!' is going to see an autistic person in distress in public at some point in their life and decide to jump in to be the 'saviour' like the 'amazing film' showed them.

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As an autistic person, I know the need to completely understand something before my brain will settle with it, but we HAVE to realise that this shit doesn't and cannot apply to queer and trans people's identities. You HAVE to accept and respect even if you don't understand it.
I remember saying a few months ago that whether or not you understand someone's identity doesn't matter, you should still respect their identity, and I had people responding to me saying 'I'm autistic and I can't just accept something I don't understand', and that's not okay?
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So, if some of your stims are conscious and deliberate, don't let anyone tell you you're faking.
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tw: murder, restraint, police brutality

Eric Parsa, an autistic teenager, died after being put in prone restraint by police. The coroner ruled it 'accidental death', and cited Eric's weight as a contributing factor in his death.

This is how fatphobia and ableism work together.
You can find out more here (warning for ableist language, functioning labels and disturbing details about Eric's death in the article).

This is also an example of how racism, ableism and fatphobia work together against disabled people of colour.

nbcnews.com/news/us-news/l…
From the article: "The parish coroner ruled the death accidental “as a result of excited delirium” with his obesity and “prone positioning” among contributing factors."
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tw: restraint, ableism, abuse, sia

I will NOT take people declaring that the only autistic people complaining about 'Music' are those who haven't ever 'needed' restraint, when my replies have been so full of autistic people bravely recounting their restraint related trauma.
Fuck you, if you're saying this. Fuck you.

You saying this only proves how little you care about the abuse that so many autistic people have faced, how unwilling you are to listen. You don't believe those that have been restrained are capable of voicing their trauma. Fuck you.
I, an autistic person who has not experienced this kind of restraint, will stand with autistic people who have experienced it and who have lasting trauma from this abuse.

You claim to care about those with 'severe' autism, but you fucking fail to show it with every word.
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I'm writing an article on how disabled people are treated when it comes to life saving medical treatment, and I'm looking to speak to people with lived experience (for example, have you been made low priority or refused life-saving treatment?). DMs are open! #JournoRequest
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There's something so fucking misogynistic about that clip where a woman is explaining how Thatcher lifted up the ladder behind her, and the interviewer is like 'but wasn't it important that she proved a woman COULD be prime minister?'.

Bitch, we always knew we could.
The issue was never that women don't believe in themselves enough to be Prime Minister, you fucking cockwomble.
Anyway shout out to the woman for responding with a list of reasons why Thatcher is shit and basically saying 'I don't care that she was a woman, she was a dickhead'.
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