I was not harassed out of the project. I had something sprung on me, was pissed off, said so, thought it over a bit, and pulled my work. Shortly after that, the project folded.
As it happens, I had other stuff I needed to pay attention to on Saturday. I got a text at 1 PM from a friend to maybe check twitter, & spent the next 10 hours sorting out a mess with real consequences, for many people who were stunned & angry, some who were worried or afraid.
It would have been /extremely/ easy for us to just miss the entire thing, have it look like we were fully on board & had known all along. I'm very glad that's not how it played out, because that is the exact opposite of the case.
It's important to me that you know I was not badgered, bullied, censored or harassed into leaving the project. I pulled my work from a project I could not stand by, when the shape of it was revealed.
Harassment is serious, and it has lasting impact. When someone is harassed, they /have been harassed/, no matter how long it's been since the event. No one gets to decide for them that it's been long enough and they should be over it.
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We have to understand that we are not just putting safety tools out there for players to protect themselves, we are actively looking to create safety, a long term cultural shift towards care, respect, & compassion for each other, even if our characters are post-apocalyptic beasts
Quick history bit! Do you know how pivotal the invention of the zipper in 1917 was to gender construction in children? From the mid 1500s to the 1900, MOST children wore dresses throughout early childhood, up to around age 8.
Adult men's pants had complex fastenings that would confound a small child needing to get to the toilet in time, so until a child was able to deal with all those ties and hooks and buttons, it was skirts for everyone!
The zipper was patented in 1917, and after that clothes got MUCH more heavily gendered much earlier. Now we've got this nonsense: express.google.com/u/0/product/42…