How To Stop Feeling Like A Failure After 30

Confessions of a former loser who's turned his life around

(& who believes you will too)

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You look around you and feel tiny.

You feel like your whole life is a chain of disappointments.

You feel your parents are ashamed of you, or at the very least you feel you're letting them down.

You've had some minor achievements, but you still feel 'inferior'.

I feel you.
Most people around you are off being successful, happy, and accomplished. Or so you believe.

They aren't.

Sure, they might have or earn more.

But you aren't what you have or do not have.

You are a collection of your experiences, your thoughts, and your actions.
Even in my 'loser' years, the amount of my 'social' capital far
surpassed that of all my friends combined.

Failing, despite wanting it so bad, builds that capital.

At some point, you have to convert that capital though.

That is what I want you to do moving forward.
Look. I wasn't losing and failing because I wanted to.

I simply didn't have the tools in my bag to figure shit out.

Motivation and drive was NEVER the issue. And it's not an issue for you either.

Having clarity and building the needed skills is the issue.

Let's start there.
Get hyper-clarity on the life you want to build.

Then reverse engineer what needs to be done to get there.

It sounds SO simple because it is.

THAT is all I changed to completely turn my life around.

Know what skills, courses, and mindset shifts you need to succeed.
Don't say you want to retire your parents.

Say you want to retire them July 12th, 2024, buy them a house in Sarteano, Tuscany that costs 623k.

Hyper clarity. Let that vision obsess you.

Then take the actions needed to create that reality.

Difficult? Yes. Possible? Yes.
Don't know what to pursue in terms of profession?

Whatever you do, you're going to need to unlock that fire within you. How?

Align what you value with what the world needs, and what you're good at.

Bring the energy every day and $$ will come to you.

Abundantly.
Guys, I'm out here building in public.

I don't give a shit what anyone says or thinks and neither should you.

Be blind to negativity.

Find winners to stack your team.

And give yourself permission to mess up. It's ok.

I promise you will make it.

I know I will.
Stop letting time go by without taking action.

If you're reading this and feel stuck just hit me up.

My DMs are always open. I would love to help!

If this resonated with you, please RT πŸ”the 1st tweet!

Appreciate every one of you.

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Look. I was you.

You feel extraordinary on the inside,

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You have tried & pursued several dreams,

but you were never able to stick it through.

Family and friends judge you.

Your confidence & self-belief is gone.

Let's change that.
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Stop selling yourself short.

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You need to know what is most important to you.

You won't endure obstacles & fear if what you're

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