'God may in his infinite wisdom want to finish my story of spiritual abuse with your voice to tear down the strongholds that allowed my spiritual abuse.' 1) So true. We're a body, we shouldn't have to deal with abuse as individuals - come on Church, where you at? 2) We ...
2) We usually don't tell our stories till we've already gone through tremendous pain. When we speak up publicly, we want other people to be spared. We're amazed we managed to get through it, we're concerned others won't - we don't want to see anyone else go through that pain...
3) We also speak because one of the ways we get healing is by speaking our stories of abuse, by no longer being silenced. Discouraging people from speaking, harms their personhood (see Langberg 'Counselling Survivors of Sexual Abuse).
4) So please listen to what survivors are saying. Hear them, testify that you've heard them. And act! Fight against this pandemic of abuse that surely is recorded in heaven's records as one of the worse blights there has ever been on the Church.
5) One day, we'll all stand before a Holy God and have to give an account for how we responded. And you can't say, 'Lord when did we see you mistreated?' Because you've heard about us in the recently published reports, and on social media. So, pls rise up and call for repentance.
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1/ I appreciate I have many friends on here wondering why us survivors are not happy with some of the things well known UK leaders have said in response to the Fletcher & Smyth abuse. What has sounded as appropriate to you, has been hurtful to us... #FletcherCulture
2/ I'd ask you to pls do the work of researching and understanding abuse better. Remember the time when you needed to understand exegesis & Biblical theology better - similarly you may now need to understand abuse & its dynamics better...
3/ Listen to survivors' voices. It's disingenuous to say you care about the survivors - but then ignore what they are saying. It's unkind to pontificate on what needs to happen, if you're not listening to what the survivors who have had an inside view for years, have to say.