If you think purposefully adding psychological stress to already rigorous medical training your privilege is showing your whole ass and just how out of touch you are.
People are carrying so much in their personal lives and to add additional stress to “make them tougher” is not only asinine but deadly. We’re doctors, not robots. The fact we are juggling our personal lives and still caring for others is enough stress.
If you feel otherwise then either you are incredibly blessed to not have to carry much else or you lack such insight you don’t realize exactly how toxic you are.
And I haven’t even mentioned the elephant in the room of being anything other than a cis-hetero-white male.
If you are any level of other you are so busy trying to be the first/only/one of few that you don’t have the luxury of just training so that extra “stress” people want to add is already present. And then you want to add more?
All I’m hearing is that you want to continue to make medicine an exclusively white male profession full of emotionally stunted robots. No disrespect to the older generations of medicine but that model is archaic.
That in no way benefits our patients.
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Sending your Black/Brown child to predominantly white private schools does not come without costs.
I would know. I was that Black child. My mom’s purest intentions of getting me a better education also left massive scars on my psyche.
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While these schools do truly offer the experience of a lifetime in many ways:
World class education (still fraught with historical inaccuracies but still top notch)
Once in a lifetime trips around the world
Small classrooms with attentive teachers
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They also are create a toxic environment for anyone who is not from the upper class.
The psychological trauma of being THE ONLY Black person someone knows results in an onslaught of racist comments/ behaviors from peers. Especially from the ones who claim to be progressive
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