To my Brother priests,
That tweet from @Bishopoftyler honoring the priest disobeying his Bishop & fighting hard for the theology of the Republican Party absolutely broke my heart.
I’ve learned a lot in almost 22 years as a priest, but few things more important than this:
You can love and serve the bride of Christ as faithfully and diligently as you want, but she will never love you back.
She will spend all of her energy telling priests in trouble that they are valuable and running you into the ground.
It’s heartbreaking.
Today, I left my one day off to drive an hour back simply to be with a woman as she died, To comfort her family and to guide her safely home.
I don’t say this to be honored, I promise.
I say it because I suspect I’m more like you than the priest that Bishop chose to honor today.
Please, please, don’t let wicked men define this for you.
Jesus sees you.
He sees how hard you fight to discover what’s right.
He sees you bleed for this well our leaders look away.
He sees the days you put on the smile even though you can barely move.
He treasures it so much,
Even if his bride doesn’t.
That tweet reminded me of how grateful I should be for my bishop, he fights for holiness and encourages us to do the same.
If you have a good bishop, praise God for that today.
If you don’t, pray for his conversion.
But whomever your bishop, Jesus is your Lord & He sees you & loves that you love His People.
I’m proud to be your brother.
Esto Vir.
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Folks, I'd like to take a moment and comment on mask wearing at mass.
I'm in a position as a priest where I hear from a lot of priests and I have to tell you, our madness is damaging our clergy greatly. We have priests who are pushed to the breaking point because of people's
personal convictions about masks.
For me personally, every week, I am sent messages chastising me for not forbidding entrance to people for not wearing masks and I get it.
But, to be clear, I'm also getting angry/hurt messages from peopleabout getting kicked out of a Church or
forbidden entrance to a Church because of a lack of room or mask issues and I get that too.
Do you see the impossible spot your priests are in?
As Pastors, we end up with two choices: 1. Kick people out or forbid them entrance 2. Remind people every week to wear masks and
So, Joel Osteen did a Joe Osteen thing and found a way to get more money in the name of Jesus, this time from the federal government.
Now, Twitter is filled with the perpetually enraged calling for Catholic Churches to be taxed.
Let's talk this through, shall we?
One of my parishes is among the largest in our diocese, with one of the largest budgets in the diocese.
With that,If we were a business, we still wouldn't qualify for taxes. Why?
Because we don't make money.
We pay our employees, care for the poor and nothing is left afterward.
When the quarantine happened, we couldn't take collections.
Because we couldn't take collections, we couldn't pay our over 100 employees.
Even with this, we doubled down our commitment to help the poor & vulnerable.
The PPP loan allowed us to pay our employees, who then didn't go
Death is a significant part of my life; I'm around it everyday. When someone dies, your time with them on earth is done; you cannot have it back.
The wounds death brings on those left behind can be soothed, but never healed.
With that, I offer this:
Call or visit your parents. Particularly if they are in a nursing home, make contact with them. Notes on their room window, singing to them from outside, whatever it takes.
If they are home, call them, text them, visit them. Thank them, honor them, love them. Treasure them.
If you are in a contentious situation with a sibling or parent, take a moment and ask yourself what you would feel if they died today and then respond accordingly.
Not all relationships should be reconciled, I totally get that, but those situations are rare.
Earlier, I posted a tweet about the pain many of my parishioners have endured mourning their sick or dying family without being able to be present.
I posted it as a response to yet another video of tens of thousands of people gathering in protest.
The responses shocked me: lots of retweets & favorites, some death threats, even numerous notifications that people were attempting to access my passwords.
Some people politely disagreed, some people not so much.
Some people exuberantly agreed, others obnoxiously so.
I’m deleting it now because of the violence that’s begun to seep into the responses: people actually threatening each other.
At some point, if we don’t figure out how to disagree and dialogue, our Republic will die.
To my little bro @FrGoyo -
One of the toughest parts of being a priest is moving. You give the entirety of yourself to God’s people where you are assigned and then, like Abraham, God calls you to “Go to a land you know not.”
I’ve changed communities 12 times in 20 years
and I was devastated almost every time.
I will pray for you and, if I may, offer advice to you and any younger priest going through this transition.
First, don’t let the heartbreak cause you to give the less the next time.
The pain you feel is the price of love and we should always be willing to pay whatever price love requires.
Second, you have to let go: Do not return to your former assignment for a minimum of one year.
Thank you for this brother. I'd like to share my opinions on what we as priests can do and it centers on the way we lead as priest and the pastorship model we practice.
For 20 years, I have watched the way we Pastor and I've become a veritable collecting point for horror stories of priests with too much power. Simply put, there is no accountability for a priest being a pompous jerk, power oriented or treating his parish as his personal fiefdom.
I have first hand watched priest build fantastic rectories for themselves, make unbelievably poor decisions regarding finances, treat people with contempt and then get "rewarded" by the Bishop with a bigger, better parish to destroy when they are done with the first one.