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Jun 3, 2021 9 tweets 2 min read Read on X
It’s very easy to underperform once you reach a position of power.

Everything can be delegated through authority.

This is why many managers become incompetent.
When they start off, they do everything they can to attain management position.

But once they occupy the position, their competence slips off.

Why?

Because the allure of abusing your power is too strong.
Bosses/board members who appoint individuals into management position,

do so on the basis of past performance.

But they also assume the level of performance will be consistent into the future.

Poor assumption.
So what happens is that as soon as they appoint someone into management,

they cease to monitor their performance.

Partly because they trust the individual, but mostly because no one has time to monitor managers all the time.
This is why you end up getting sociopathic managers in positions of power who are incompetent.

Their past performance was simply to attain a short term goal.

Now it’s all about delegating and abusing their power.

AND making sure NO ONE rises to the top.
When you are met with such resistance, the only way to topple a toxic manager is to,

create a direct route of communication with the owner/boss,

while generating popularity with your coworkers.

But this requires competence and charm.
What separates a good manager from a bad one,

is the “purpose behind their delegation”.

If they delegate because they have more pressing matters directly associated with the growth of the business,

they are good managers.

If they delegate because of power,

they’re bad.
That’s one element.

The second element, is how effectively a manager delegates.

Is their word respected enough for the staff to execute on what’s been delegated?
A good manager is like a good father.

If they’re absent, in time the business/family falls apart.

Delegation, execution, direction and guidance.

A bad manager is like a drunk father.

In their absence, things operate smoother with less tension, albeit no direction.

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Dec 15, 2022
There’s utility in placing a narcissist at the top of the chain;

when the organisation requires a shake up. When too many people need to be fired.

It’s a risky strategy…
because generally, the most competent workers leave immediately.

But if you have a incompetent, poorly managed workforce,

the best individuals resign ANYWAY. They have options.
Placing the narcissist in charge, will create the shake up necessary for a cleanse.

A handful of people resign, pointing fingers at the narcissist as the reason for their exit.

Then when the time is right, leverage that information to remove the narcissist.
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If you find that you don't get offended in an interactive situation where otherwise 99% of the people would,

there's a good chance that you have extreme emotional detachment.

If there is NO internal ego triggered, you can control your offending counterpart in many ways.
Most interactions go sour because one person says something that offends in one way or another. May be subtle, may be rash.

Most people react. Some don't but still internalize it.

VERY FEW stay completely detached.
Practice remaining neutral (internally and expressively) to offensive remarks.

To the point where you welcome it.

The idea is not for you to fail in distinguishing between rude/polite people.

But its for people to realize that nothing triggers a reaction out of you.
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If you want to get ahead,

your private life must seperate itself from your public life,

in all aspects of who you are.
Your intolerance towards others is what preserves your values and integrity.

But it’s also your intolerance that ruins your popularity.
To speak your mind and convey the beliefs you uphold is always a tactical error,

for most people will not share your values,

and so they’ll secretly despise you.
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Disagreeableness is the most attractive trait for men.

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Disagreeableness as a term at face value makes little sense with regards to attractiveness.

But applying context to what you’re saying “no” to immediately makes you stand out.
No to availability.

You shouldn’t be available at the request of anyone.

You should be unavailable, because you’re busy pursuing something of great importance and meaning to you.

And everyone else should suffer in comparison.
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Money and happiness.

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Happiness breaks down to two forms;

hedonism and eudaimonia (fulfilment in meaningful life).

Money stimulates the hedonistic part of your happiness.

It doesn’t satisfy fulfilment in meaning.
Fulfilment in life is not the same as pleasure.

Fulfilment in life derives from suffering.

Pleasure derives from indulging.
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Becoming a high value man,

through shadow integration.

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If you often find yourself acting out in a way that makes you regret it later,

it means you have a limited understanding of what the driving forces are behind your behaviour.

To stop acting out in weak, uncharacteristic manner, you must integrate your shadow.
Conceptualise yourself as having multiple personalities. Because if there's a side to you that regrets your own actions,

its possible that you're not entirely in control of who you are.

Its possible that those other personalities are desires that work against you.
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