When you believe your girl is more important than you, you lean in to her subconsciously. By leaning in, you inadvertently reveal your feelings of inferiority. Women find this very unattractive. So don't do it. Stand up straight, gentlemen. Don't lean in!
THEY ARE NOW BROKEN UP
When you feel your bandmate is more important than you, you subconsciously lean in to him. By leaning in, you unintentionally reveal your artistic insecurities. Don't do that. Be proud of your musical accomplishments and stand up straight. Don't lean in!
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You can literally be British royalty, but if you believe your commoner wife is more important than you, you will lean in to kiss her in front of the entire world. By leaning in, you reveal that you aren't ready to be king of anything. Don't lean in!
A ROYAL MESS
Notice Harry's slumped shoulders and droopy eyes. Notice his head tilt. And notice Meghan's hand control. She is completely in control, completely in charge. Our bodies don't lie. Our bodies reveal much more than we realize. Don't be like Harry. Don't lean in!
REMEMBER HER FACE
That's the face of bitter disappointment. Disgust, even. She doesn't want to see your weak emotional side. She wants to see your strong confident side. Be her hero. Don't be her baby. Don't lean in!
"Her tits excite you. Your confidence excites her" –Rivelino
THEY ARE NOW DIVORCED
When you lean into your girl, you reveal psychological inferiority or worse, emotional neediness. Women find this unattractive. You must stay strong and vigiliant. Don't lean in!
"She loves you when you're strong. She leaves you when you're weak" –Rivelino
THEY ARE NOW DIVORCED
When you lean into your girl like a boy hugging his mom, what you are effectively communicating to her is "Please don't even leave me". Women find this very unattractive. You must stay strong, you must stay vigilant. Or you could find yourself dumped!
THEY ARE NOW DIVORCED
Notice the reverse polarity in this photo. She is standing tall and strong against the tree, and he is leaning into her with his body and tilting his head to touch hers. Also, look at how she's holding his hands in her hands. Three big polarity mistakes!
THIS IS NOT A JOKE
"Don't lean in!" is real advice for real men - and it really works. Our society today teaches men to be weak and submissive. My goal is to help men find their masculine strength and masculine frame. This helps men find LOVE. Green lines are just the beginning!
BEING A MAN IS NOT EASY
Your girl wants you to be powerful but also wants to steal your power. One way she will try to steal your power is by establishing hand control. You can't let her. You must always be in control of her hands, not the reverse. Don't give up hand control!
THEY WANT YOU WEAK
"In this image they are expressing the utmost comfort with one another" — No. In this image, he is being submissive to her. You can't trust what you read in magazines or see on TV. They want weak and docile men. Weak men are easier to control. Don't lean in!
LEANING IN IS NOT ABOUT SEX
Leaning in is about power – about who feels more powerful and who feels less powerful. One man will lean into another man if he feels the other man is more powerful than him. If you want to appear more powerful, don't lean into anybody!
DON'T LEAN IN
I used to think leaning in showed I loved her. And in a way, it does. I want to nurture her, adore her, give her everything. The problem is women invariably misinterpret this as low value behavior. When we lean in more than they do, they start taking us for granted
HE IS A MESS
His body is leaning in. His head is tilting away. Sexually, he wants her. Logically, he disapproves of her arrogance. His body and mind are at war. He is a mess. In contrast, notice how her head and body are aligned. She is centered. She is living in her own reality
THE WAY TO LOVE HER
Be her rock. Be her protector. Be her leader. Don't lean into her world. Bring her into your world. Focus on your mission. Make her work for your love and attention. Become higher value every day. The more success you have, the more you have to share with her
DON'T LOSE YOUR BALANCE
Look at the picture below. Remove him from the photo (bottom left), and she is still centered in her own reality. Remove her from the photo (bottom right), and he is off center, off balance. Don't lose your balance. Don't lean in!
THE TRUTH WILL SET YOU FREE
Unfortunately, it's gettting harder to find the truth. They only print the truth when they try to ridicule and confuse men. But the truth about polarity and evolutionary psychology is hardwired in humans. The truth is inside us dailymail.co.uk/femail/article…
IS LEANING IN ABOUT HEIGHT?
"He leans in because he's taller" is what a lot of people say. A lot of people are wrong. Leaning in is not about height. It's about feeling important vs feeling insecure. Look at these two photos below. Is the taller person leaning in?
1. You're a loser. You take the path of least resistance. You're lazy. You live in sexual scarcity. Women don't want to fuck you. You're a coward. You give away free validation to girls in the hopes of getting laid. You're boring and predictable. You're a simp
2. You shut down the free validation. You build yourself up. You become a man of courage, achievement, mastery. You do impressive things other men CANNOT do. Women notice you. You start banging pretty girls. You become picky with your affection, your validation, your dick
3. You're a man of power. Your aura radiates. You love women and women love you. Girls love to suck your dick and compete for the opportunity to do so. You freely give validation to women, on your own terms, because you live a life of beautiful sexual abundance
This is obvious to high achieving men like Rivelino who can get high quality pussy, and it’s inconceivable to degenerate PUAs who can only get sluts
If you debate me on this, you’re telling on yourself
The disgusting PUAs with triple digit body counts who try to lord over you by bragging about the QUANTITY of girls they’ve banged, they never want to talk about QUALITY
In fact, they’ll make the nihilistic argument that quality doesn’t exist, that “all pussy is the same”
When a man denies the existence of QUALITY differences in pussy, this is the most obvious tell that he’s used to eating from the dumpster, so he needs to protect his ego
What he should be worried about is protecting his dick from gonorrhea
1-Give men false hope that they can meet “the one” without doing the necessary work of self improvement
2-Encourage laziness and cowardice in men
3-Encourage the inhuman practice of swiping on people
4-Discourage social bravery and boldness in men (cold approach/daygame)
5-Discourage men from having the gumption to do cool shit in real life (sexy hobby)
6-Discourage men and women from doing real world social activities, building up a social network, and making friends with people of the opposite sex
7-Give men a wrong impression of their own value (lower than in reality)
8-Give men a wrong impression of women (arrogant, aloof, damaged)
9-Give women a wrong impression of their own value (inflates their egos)
10-Give women a wrong impression of men (desperate weaklings)
11-Damage male self esteem the longer they’re on the apps
12-Damage women’s feminine magic the longer they’re on the apps (they often get pumped and dumped by men who are out of their league)
13-Encourage men to pump and dump
14-Encourage men to treat women with anger and impatience
15-Encourage women to be total bitches with massive entitlement issues
16-Overall, dating apps create animosity, disillusion, and antagonism between the sexes
Dating apps are hell
The healthiest women don’t get on the dating apps. Or if they do, they get on briefly and then get out quickly in order to protect their own health, when they realize what a clusterfuck they are
So what’s left on the dating apps is damaged women or women who were once healthy but BECAME damaged from staying on the apps too long, longer than a few weeks or months
Dating apps are hell
Any man who relies on dating apps to meet women is going to get a distorted and depressing view of what women are and what they can be
A man who gets on dating apps to meet women is telling them:
“I don’t know how to meet women in real life because I’m a coward and I’m boring, so please take pity on me. I don’t do any cool shit with my life. Can I please get pussy anyway? I’m desperate”
How can a woman respect this kind of man?
Intrinsically, she can’t
Intrinsically, she knows that this isn’t how it’s supposed to work
Intrinsically, women know they want to be with a man of courage
Intrinsically, they know that courage is a key masculine trait that they should look for
Because intrinsically, women know they are WEAK
Deep down, women know they are physically weak and emotionally a chaotic mess, extremely neurotic and unsure of their own value. They KNOW they need a man with the opposite and complementary qualities: steady, strong, brave, decisive, cool under pressure
Even as society tries to brainwash women into choosing men who are “in touch with their feelings”, their pussies guide them towards men who are classically/stereotypically masculine:
Cocky, confident, decisive, “rude”/“disagreeable”, self assured, ambitious, even arrogant and “mean”
Basically, she is looking for the opposite of neurotic, because she is almost entirely neurotic (even if she hides it with a veneer of bitchiness and makeup)
And a man who can't even approach her in real life is a neurotic coward
Women have a self destructive side. Without a good strong man to protect her and give her structure, a woman will probably spiral out of control
Men have a self destructive side. The big difference is that it's up to the man to master this for himself and for the woman he loves
The burden of the man has two parts:
First, he needs to harness and control his own self destructive impulses, achieve mastery over them, and redirect them into healthy productive action and structure for his own well being
Then, he needs to do the same with HER self destructive impulses
1-EARLY BITCHINESS
When you first meet a woman, you need to establish strong boundaries so she respects you. She will throw shit tests at you to see if you're man enough to call her out on her bitchiness. You need to hold frame
Example
I met up with a girl for a first date. We started walking to the bar, but at one point I realized I was walking the wrong way and stopped. Immediately, she pounced
Her: Do you know where we're going? [bitchy attitude]
Me: You don't have to come [calm, assertive]
She did nothing wrong. I'm supposed to be leading her to the bar. If I don't know how to get there, that's annoying and unattractive
She doubled down and increased the pressure to see if I would get frustrated, lose my cool
I stayed calm, pushed back, but without getting angry
10 ways to build a strong masculine identity and attract high quality women
1. Craft your origin story 2. Flaunt your ambitions 3. Create verbal tension 4. Qualify her to establish standards 5. Patience means abundance
10 ways to build a strong masculine identity and attract high quality women, part 2
6. Escalate without flinching 7. Demonstrate emotional control 8. Create more, consume less 9. Courage + skill = authority 10. Confront your sexual core
1. Craft your origin story
If your life was a movie, what would be the trailer? You need to have a clear and compelling backstory and an exciting dramatic future. She should want to take part in the adventure called your life