Here are the top 10 actionable lessons I've learned from the world's most successful people by working on the @ProfileRead every week:
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1. Learn, don't idolize
"It's never really been my style to idolize players, to try to copy them. I just try to learn and get the best from the great masters, contemporary and from the past."
If you're struggling to get your ideas out there, Martha Stewart offers the following recipe: 1) a good idea, 2) passion for the idea, and 3) interesting content that backs your idea.
When you undertake a new task, do you play to win or do you play not to lose? One is a mentality of being on offense while the other is being on defense.
Tom Brady says: "True competitors are the ones who always play to win"
Daniel Ek believes a productive meeting consists of 3 elements: 1) the desired outcome is clear ahead of time 2) the various options are clear, ideally ahead of time & 3) the roles of the participants are crystal clear.
Malcolm Gladwell says people are drawn to things that are done imperfectly. Whether itβs art, movies, or books, people talk more about the flawed things that get stuck in their head than they do the obvious, perfect things
We try to avoid feeling pain, but Edith Eger reminds us: "It's good to feel the feeling rather than medicate it away. You may not like how you feel. But you'll learn it's temporary & that you can survive it."
Lori Gottlieb says it is a good signal for what you want in your own life. If you feel envious, ask: "What do I desire, and what steps can I take to get something like that in my own life?"
Ira Glass has organized his life around what gives him pleasure. He enjoys every aspect of running a radio biz β editing, mixing, reporting, selling & budgeting. "The more challenging it gets, the more interesting it becomes."
There's good, there's great, there's exceptional β and then there's Lionel Messi.
Thanks to his speed, control, and mesmerizing ability to shoot the ball into the net, Messi has become a legend.
This is his story πππ
Messi has been playing soccer since he was in kindergarten. When his mother would send him off to run errands, he took a ball with him. If he didn't have one, he would make one out of plastic bags.
Nothing stood in his way.
In 1997, people began noticing that Messi appeared tiny on the field.
At 10 years old, he looked nearly two years younger than his teammates.
The following year, doctors diagnosed him with a growth hormone deficiency and prescribed him nightly hormone injections.
Chess is psychological warfare, and Magnus Carlsen thrives in the chaos. He doesn't beat his opponents outright, but his style feels more like a "strangling pressure."
Carlsen, 30, became the second youngest world chess champion in 2013.
This is his story πππ
As a kid, Carlsen showed an aptitude for intellectually stimulating games.
Before he was 2, he was able to complete a 50-piece jigsaw puzzle by himself.
By age 4, he had memorized the names and the population size of most of Norway's 430 municipalities.
At age eight, Carlsen's father re-introduced him to the game of chess.
After playing for a year, Magnus beat his dad for the first time in a game of blitz chess, and he started to play in local junior competitions shortly thereafter.
Christopher Nolan never studied film in a formal way yet he's arguably one of the world's best living directors.
Nolan is behind some of the most thought-provoking movies, including Inception, Memento, Interstellar, and The Dark Knight Trilogy.
This is his story π
His love for film came early. Nolan began making movies at 7 years old using his father's Super 8 camera and his toy action figures.
"I just carried on making films as I grew up," he says. "Over the years, they got bigger, better, and more elaborate."
It's that simple and that complicated.
It's his commitment and consistency that Nolan believes allowed him to master his craft. He refused to quit even though he had a shoestring budget and no connections in the film industry.
In fact, he funded his first feature film himself.
β¨ I spoke at @teachable's summit about how to build an engaged online community.
Here are the 3 practical tactics many successful people have used to build loyal communitiesπ
First, let's make a distinction between audience & community.
Audience is the overall group of people who may be interested in the content you produce, but your community is the group that devours your content while also interacting with you on a regular basis
Author Chris Brogan once said: βThe difference between an audience and a community is which way the chairs are facing.β
Ask yourself: Am I communicating in one direction where people are listening to me or are the conversations often dynamic and happening in a circle?
But despite everything he's been through, he teaches us that tragedy can be used to create a beautiful life filled with joy and kindness.
This is his story πππ
Born in Beirut, Reeves's early life was marked with turbulence and instability.
He was 3 when his father left the family, and the last time they spoke was when Reeves was 13 years old.
In 1994, his dad was arrested with heroin and cocaine, and sentenced to 10 years in jail.
Reeves refuses to discuss his relationship with his father, only saying, βThe story with me and my dadβs pretty heavy. Itβs full of pain and woe and f*cking loss and all that sh*t."