Most guys, girls included, have many “friendszszs“
These people are holding you back
They are dragging you down
You’re being suffocated as you stand in your comfort zone unable to venture out alone
Each day you’re dying because stagnation is death
Your friends are your worst enemies
It is never what we don’t know that gets us in trouble it is always what we believe to be true that isn’t so
So ask yourself
Are your friends worth your time?
For most people, the answer to the question above is no
Your friends are creating a negative feed back loop in your mind when it should be a positive feed back loop
If you’re on the fence here’s a cut and dry guide to sifting through your 500K friends
1. Does this person encourage you to “just be yourself”?
Yes? Next
2. Does this person have a flash of happiness when you tell him bad news about your work or personal life
Yes? Next
3. Does this person laugh at you if you get shut down at a bar or club?
Yes? Next
4. Does this person have a negative or “realistic” mindset?
Yes? Next
5. Does this person have a dwindling bank account with no actionable steps to improve his life?
Yes? Next
In this day and age the word friendship is dead, we are busy trying to “get ours” with no effort
Instead replace friendship with the word RECIPROCITY
A reciprocal relationship is beneficial to both parties
If your best friend is dragging you away from events you wish to attend and is willing to battle with you for an obscure girl at a club, be certain he won’t be there for you when you need a place to crash
FIN!!
In the upcoming Part 2 thread, @BowTiedBull shares the 7 TRAITS to look forward in a Friend or be a Friend
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I've crossed that milestone this year and can share you some ways on how you too can
You can use cash to buy yourself time. It can be as simple as a convenient store and parking to as impactful as elongating your life
If you meet anyone who disagrees that cash does not buy time, you can be certain they have never seen a loved one die in a hospital due to lack of top tier medical treatment