Sexual debauchery leads to the collapse of a civilization within 3 generations.
TLDR: The sexual revolution was a mistake. A poison. It unleashed termites into the foundation of the west.
How do we know this?
Read on.
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Oxford anthropologist J.D. Unwin studied 86 societies and civilizations to see if there was a relationship between sexual morality and human flourishing.
What did he find?
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First, Unwin defined four categories of cultures. Each is differentiated in their pursuit of art, engineering, literature, agriculture, etc.
1. Dead - these cultures are only focused on the day-to-day needs of life. They don't care about higher questions and so do not progress.
2. Superstitious - these cultures develop beliefs that help them explain the natural world. This can be represented in the special treatment of the dead.
3. Deistic - characterized by belief in gods or a god. This requires more imagination and higher-order thinking.
4. Rationalistic - characterized by rational thinking. This was the category with the most human flourishing.
Next, Unwin defined sexual ethics and restraint into two categories:
- Prenuptial - this was measured on a scale from complete sexual freedom to "remain a virgin until married."
- Postnuptial - how easy is it to get a divorce? How many wives can a man have? How faithful are the women expected to be?
What did he find?
The single most influential factor: prenuptial chastity.
If people were expected to remain virgins until they were married, the culture was more likely to have all of the markers of human flourishing.
They were more likely to be an "advanced" civilization.
The best combination, resulting in a culture that exceeds other cultures?
You probably won't be surprised.
Prenuptial chastity combined with absolute monogamy. Absolute monogamy means one spouse for life.
Why was prenuptial chastity the most important?
In cultures where virginity was no longer expected, within three generations the following disappeared:
- absolute monogamy
- deism
- rational thinking
Virginity before marriage is literally one of the prerequisites for modern civilization.
Without it, people usually regress into the lowest "dead" category as they become interested only in their own wants and needs. They become slaves to their appetites.
Cultures that have embraced total sexual freedom collapse within three generations.
They might limp along for a time, powered by some momentum, but eventually, they are conquered or taken over by another culture.
In the West, the sexual revolution started in the late 1960's. Three generations from then would put us in the 2070's.
Are we on the way to collapse?
The evidence points to "yes."
You cannot have both sexual freedom and progress.
Unwin: "Any human society is free to choose either to display great energy or to enjoy sexual freedom; the evidence is that it cannot do both for more than one generation."
Marriage is not just a private contract between two individuals. It has ramifications for the entire community and culture.
And what two (or more) people do together in the bedroom is not, indeed, a private matter. Writ large, it has consequences for that entire civilization.
Porn is cultural cancer. It rots the bones.
A healthy civilization, or one that wants to progress, will want to eradicate it or push it to the fringes of society.
This is one reason why Christendom has produced some vibrant cultures. It's sexual ethic.
The Gospel really is a leaven that gradually leavens the whole loaf.
Any culture that embraces Christianity will eventually rise up.
Can you imagine the vitality of a Christian China?
A culture can be turned around, so there is always hope. Massive repentance can bear fruit.
But based on the data, it also takes three generations for improvements to start showing up.
Sexual ethics is a powerful rudder, but it is still a rudder on a huge, lumbering ship.
Unwin's work also lines up with other literature on male sexual energy and how it must be contained and directed in order for a culture to thrive.
May we heed the warning.
For more details, check out @KirkDurston and his article on Unwin's work. Durston also provides a PDF full of notes on Unwin's book if you want to dive deeper.
In 1895, a French social psychologist named Gustave Le Bon published a book so dangerous that it became the private playbook of dictators for the next century.
Hitler quoted it. Mussolini kept it by his bedside. Edward Bernays used it to build modern propaganda.
The book's name? "The Crowd."
Its core claim: The moment people form a group, they become stupid. Not slightly dumber. Fundamentally, structurally incapable of rational thought.
And the tactics he described for controlling them still work on you right now. 🧵 (thread)
Le Bon's first defined what a "crowd" actually is.
A crowd is not just people standing near each other. A thousand strangers in a train station are not a crowd. A crowd forms when individual consciousness dissolves and a collective mind takes over.
Six people can be a crowd. An entire nation, separated by thousands of miles, can be a crowd. The question is not proximity. The question is whether individual judgment has been surrendered.
3 forces transform individuals into a crowd:
✅ Anonymity - The feeling of invisible power that comes from being part of a mass. Responsibility vanishes. Restraint vanishes with it.
✅ Contagion - Every emotion becomes infectious. Sentiments pass through a group the way a virus passes through a body. One person's panic becomes everyone's panic.
✅ Suggestibility - The individual enters a hypnotic state. Le Bon compared it directly to hypnosis. The conscious personality disappears. What remains obeys.
Once all three kick in, something startling happens.
Never do anything on your own initiative and never make any plans without asking if you’re allowed to do it. Don’t just join the gym. Never plan a night out with friends.
Pretend that you’re just being considerate when really you want to foist all the responsibility onto her.
2. Overshare
Gossip like a woman to your wife, as if you’re just one of the girls.
Vomit out your feelings at every opportunity. Burden her with every little anxiety and fear. Make a habit of crying often. Treat her as an emotional crutch.
Act like an absolute mess at the merest hint of failure, conflict, or difficulty.
3. Never make any decisions
The magic words are, "I don't know. What do you want to do?"
Never be decisive. Always second-guess your own decision. Be silent until your wife steps in to save the day. Making a decision means you might make the wrong decision and look foolish, so better not to make any decision at all.