Some learn it the hard way, some can learn it
by reading the experience of others.
Study these 12 harsh truths of life to help you get stronger.
9 Harsh Truths to know:
1. You will fail 2. You don’t know a lot 3. There may not be a tomorrow 4. There is no right moment 5. Many people have more than you 6. Not everyone likes you 7. You'll never feel 100% ready 8. You can’t change the past 9. Toxic company is bad for you
1. You will fail sometimes.
You’ll never be 100% sure it will work,
but you can always be 100% sure doing nothing won’t work.
So get out there and do something!
2. There’s a lot you don’t know.
The day you stop learning is the day you stop living.
Embrace new information,
think about it, and use it to advance yourself.
3. There may not be a tomorrow.
This is sad but true.
So spend your time wisely today and pause long enough to appreciate it.
4. There will never be a right moment.
If you want to change your job or leave everything behind to travel the world,
do it now.
The longer you wait for it,
the more regrets you generate.
5. Someone else will always have more than you.
But remember, it’s not how many you have,
it’s how passionate you are about collecting them.
It’s all about the journey.
6. There will always be people who don’t like you.
No matter what you do,
there will always be someone who thinks differently.
So concentrate on doing what you know in your heart is right.
7. You will never feel 100% ready for something new.
Because most great opportunities in life,
force us to grow beyond our comfort zones,
which means you won’t feel totally comfortable or ready for it.
8. No matter how much anyone likes you or loves you,
they have their own life to live and you have your own life to live.
You are on your own and always will be.
9. You can’t change the past
“Nobody can go back and start a new beginning,
but anyone can start today and make a new ending.”
You can’t change what happened,
but you can change how you react to it.
10. Solve your own problems
It’s impossible
to always rely on other people to be there for you,
simply because
they probably have to deal with their own stuff too.
You have to deal with the real big issues too.
11. Nothing hurts us more than our own expectations
that didn’t come true.
And although it’s good to dream big,
sometimes we just have to fit our wishes
into our reality.
12. Toxic company is bad for you
These are:
- the whiners,
- the pessimists, and
- the prejudiced.
Try to gravitate towards the optimistic and passionate people,
who will help you see the brighter side of life.
Conclusion:
What matters is how you choose to react.
When you understand this,
you have the capability to do amazing things with life.
It can and will change the way you live.
Life is whatever you want it to be.
It’s whatever you make it to be.
Mental models are the most important ideas of each science.
It is the way of thinking of the greatest in history.
With the help of books, etc,
It will internalize mental models in your head in a way that you will use them automatically.
With this explanation made clear, here’s our take on 14 Rules of Success.
The Rules of Success:
1. Have a vision 2. Accept that you are alone in your journey 3. Discipline brings success 4. Use your time as smart as you can 5. Be grateful 6. Tolerate Hardships 8. Look for friends with the same goal 9. Believe in yourself 10. Wake up with Purpose
13 Smart Psychology Hacks on Building Self Discipline
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Self-discipline gives the necessary direction to life,
And helps an individual to enjoy the desired success.
Here are 11 tips on building self-discipline:
1. Reduce the number of goals 2. Start small 3. Avoid Temptation 4. Identify your goals 5. Track progress 6. Visualization 7. Be consistent 8. Sleep enough and eat well 9. Make mistakes 10. Praise yourself 11. Avoid Perfection