Ok I feel like a lot of people don’t fully know how to create a routine that doesn’t drive them crazy from boredom. Time for a thread 🙂✨
Ok first thing, map out your necessities. Here’s some basic human things we need and you can fill in the gaps:
•Shower and Brush your teeth
•Eat (3 meals even if breakfast is light)
•Work and/or go to school
•RELAX (this is a necessity!!)
•Sleep
What do these necessities look like for you? Is it easier to create a weekday schedule and leave it open on the weekends? Do you have bedtimes for the weekday and weekend?
I personally think it’s great to schedule in things you enjoy. Like on the weekends you paint or write
Next, what are your social obligations? Do you have a family, are you IN a family (like your parents and siblings live with you) are you single or committed?
After you get your base, factor the important people into your time.
Set a mental goal of how much time you commit to your kids before bed, do you text your partner after workouts and before work, call during lunch etc. Make the time after you have your necessities in place.
Necessities are a HARD BOUNDARY RARELY TO BE COMPRISED ON
Next, what’s your interaction with the outside world and goals? Fit these in after you establish your free time.
It sounds like a lot but this makes adulting SO much easier. Yay 😭
Oh yeah and routine isn’t equal to monotony. Routine is creating a solid base of living so that you can explore more of what life has to offer. We can’t fly if we’re flailing 😭🤍
*COMPROMISED
Another takeaway:
Establishing a routine can help be a GREAT aide in measuring how your mental health is doing. If you notice yourself falling off of your routine, check in with yourself. Are you overwhelmed, overworking, sad or mentally distracted?? A great self awareness tool
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Capricorn Virgo and Sagittarius placements can have a hard time internalizing success. They usually view success in a more daunting light by paying more attention to the added responsibility that the success is bringing.
This comes from them having a parent that can never be fully satisfied. So success has become an open ceiling, never enough to say it’s enough.
These placements have to stop undervaluing the TALENT and ABILITY it takes to accomplish what they do, and how everyone can’t just “do it”.
Air signs (Gemini, Libra, Aquarius) all operate from a cerebral, “surface” space when talking to strangers and associates. They never get too deep with those they don’t trust.
Air signs have some of the most engrained, subconscious trust issues because of the subtle cues that were in their environment when younger that told them “don’t be too open”.
Sagittarius sun rising and moon have some of the most complex effects from their upbringing and the cause is always imbalanced, absent or toxic male family members. It creates such an internal and external struggle with power dynamics and it’s very challenging to correct
The abusive qualities that Sagittarius ruled males see from the males in their family is usually extreme in one form or the other & the mom is often passive, permissive or powerless. This creates a lot of anger towards their parents & internalized resentment towards masculinity
Sagittarius ruled women basically get the message that men are the weakest link through their inadequacies that overshadow any strengths present. Sagittarius ruled women subconsciously feel like they need to reduce their power to allow men to shine it in a relationship
Yes we visited the county and got a tour where the Nat Turner Revolt happened and they even turned us into lampshades. This is where picnics came from. Pick a n*gger where they tortured us, hung us, ate us and skinned us.
Scorpio Full Moon is all about letting go of the things that are holding you back from transforming into the next stage of “you”. This is a time where we get the courage to move past stagnant energy and the sense of control that comfort gives us.
Scorpio Full Moon Challenges us to look fear in its face & move past the illusions it creates. We need to rebirth, grow, release & take out power back from any ways we’ve self sabotaged, self discouraged and remained in a space where we can play it “safe” while feeling miserable
You know... I feel like Capricorn’s would actually meet most of their goals if they would make peace with failure. It’s the avoidance of failure that makes them oftentimes miss their peak successes.
I think that it was drilled into Capricorn’s heads as children that they need to fear failure. Whether it was through extreme consequences for not doing something right or their parents just telling them failure isn’t an option, they’ve been conditioned to fear failing.
The only thing is that failing is a way to learn. Capricorn’s emotionally view failure as an ultimate end. But this is completely mental.