I've noticed, now having three b'nai mitzvah kids, that nobody gives a kinot book as a gift. Can't blame them, of course. We have a necessary ideology that 9Av can change to a holiday very soon, so why gift a book?
2/ I like Rabbi Dr. @NatanSlifkin's nuance to what "sinat chinam" - normally translated as "baseless hatred" - means. It's hatred that brings no gain; it's hurting yourself in order to hurt your perceived enemy more.
3a/ OTOH, this story by Dinah Paritzky is horrifying. Not only is it cruel & abusive, not only can the lesson be taught in less violent means, it's the wrong lesson! The impulse to concentrate on the physical building is #Literalist, as is the cruel act. rationalistjudaism.com/2015/07/relati…
3b/ It's #Literalist because the teachers feel they can't ask the kids to imagine the loss of their models, they need to actively destroy them. It's solipsism and surface thinking.
[I'm repeating this paragraph b/c I ran out of alt-text characters above]
3c/ It's the wrong lesson because #9av is NOT about the physical temple. That's just a building! This is #Literalist avoda-zara that converts a physical object higher than the ideas. It also diminishes the sin of the spies - a self-centered act that killed 600K people (familiar?)
3d/ The loss of the Temple is the loss of the full picture of halakha and Torah. We live in a time of permanent emergency halakha with the heart of the Torah - the Temple, tumah & taharah - completely gone. We have no *kedusha* - that's what we mourn.
3e/ We have no Sanhedrin without the Temple. We can't decide law reliably. Disputes are a permanent fixture of halakha - not as a preliminary step (which is good and needed) but as the conclusion! This is terrible; it makes multiple Torahs, obscures the Truth of God.
3f/ Beitar (another #9Av event) was the beginning of the end of the Tannaim, the last generation with the authority to interpret - even CHANGE the essential meaning - of the Torah.
3g/ If you think halakha is sclerotic and doesn't change enough with new conditions; if the plight of agunahs - who could be easily freed with a functioning Sanhedrin - make you question the ethics or value of halakha; then you know the pain and meaning of #TishaBeav
3h/ It's not about the building! If they made it about the lives lost on #9Av - and every Jewish tragedy since that gets put under the day's rubric - it would be correct. But to think it's about wood & rocks?!
It's about the chillul Hashem of Judaism in exile. Mourn THAT.
4/ While I have more thoughts on #9Av, I'll make another thread and preserve this one written in the midst of the day.
52.02/ I'll see if I can write up a number of the divrei Torah I gave over Shabbas, but I can recommend this shiur from 2000 from my teacher Rav Reuven Taragin.
52.03/ Little known fact: lasagna wasn't invented for the #NineDays but I'm not sure I'd make it through without it.
As a kid, I wondered why Garfield went nuts over lasagna until I was told that it's supposed to have meat in it, and then I got it. Game changer, I'd imagine.
51.03/ Rabbi Regan is 100% right. I describe this as "banning straws" activism - something that doesn't solve a systemic or even immediate problem while actively hurting others. As a bonus, the straw-ban helped the company's bottom line.
1/ Today was a big milestone day. My oldest had his first driving lesson, something that was put on hold for the pandemic (these poor kids growing up in this strained world), but a bigger step was that I was able to go maskless to shul.
2/ As of today, my whole nuclear family has had our full course of the vaccine (#PfizerFamilyForTheWin) and my area doesn't have community spread, so it was safe (enough) to go maskless.
I had planned to do this in order to demonstrate an object lesson.
3/ I have no idea if people actually look at me for guidance. But being frum, & kal v'chomer a rabbi, means that all of my behavior should be an object lesson.
Even more: I'm a sociologist of health, which means I need to teach/act out lessons about medical halakha.
50.02/ File this under "horrifying but not surprising." @AdamSerwer has been doing great work and I look forward - in a clinical, grin & bear it way - to reading his book.
@AdamSerwer 50.03/ Barukh Dayan ha-Emet. My shul just informed us that Rabbi Reuven Bulka z'l has passed away. Rabbi Dr. Bulka was a psychotherapist & shul rabbi who exemplified a life dedicated to his community and to Torah u-Madda. May his memory be for a blessing. en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Reuven_Bu…
1/ Erev Shabbat #Balak, esp. when the fast of #Tammuz is on Sunday, carries a special memory for me and this pandemic year(s) makes me feel especially nostalgic, so here goes.
In 2018 my wife was given a grant to do research in Europe which allowed us to plan a summer trip.
2/ She spent the first week in Germany and then I joined her in England for a second week with the kids. Just in time, in turns out, for a historic heat wave. World travelers know that American air conditioning is unheard of in Europe. They're proud of it! en.wikipedia.org/wiki/2018_Brit…
3/ My old yeshiva friend, Rabbi Jeremy Lawrence, invited me to give a guest sermon at the Finchley Synagogue (aka Kinloss). That night was the 17th of Tammuz (and UK time to begin the fast was around 1am!) kinloss.org.uk/rabbi-jeremy-l…
& en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Finchley_…