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10 Aug, 26 tweets, 5 min read
If you truly love your daughter - do not teach her that her dreams and desires are fulfilled by the presence of a man in her life; Teach her that her support in this life is her intellect, her scientific degree and her financial independence
- a man comes as an addition to share her ambitions, glories and dreams - and if he is an obstacle, he must be amputated from her life; Life is not dependent on him.
If you really love your daughter - you will be a defender of her dignity and freedom to make her personal decisions without paying attention to the opinion of the backward society - do not let backward customs and traditions destroy your relationship with your daughter
and end the affection between you and become a criminal and tyrant in her life.
Grow in society - your daughter is the first with this love and attention.
If you really love your daughter - you have to offer her unconditional love - she did not choose to come with your life, you are the one who decided to give birth to this person out of nowhere;
So just as you have the right to make mistakes and get hurt, you have to come to terms with this idea with your daughter - don't allow the males of the family to interfere in your daughter's life and personal decisions.
If you really love your daughter, do not submit to the social contract and treat her as a body, do not forget that she has a free mind; Be supportive of her to maintain her psychological and mental health -
give her all unconditional love so that she knows that you are her first and last resort in this life; Do not destroy her life to satisfy the backward intellectual society.
If you truly love your daughter, teach her that her life does not stop with the presence of a "man" in her life, a man who does not respect her, nor her feelings or personal convictions -
a man who treats her as a body for his pleasure only and a womb for the breeding of his children - teach her that separation from this being is not a disgrace and that she deserves to be respected And appreciates her entity and preserves her dignity.
If you really love your daughter, do not stand in the way between you and what you love - you have to be supportive of her and even if she chooses someone you don't like -
you will not have sex with this person; Do not impose your backward customs and traditions to force her to marry her cousin whom she saw only by chance as a child; Leave her to choose completely freely who will live her life.🤍
If you really love your daughter - do not treat her existence as a sin and that she is shameful and disgraceful, and do not reduce your honor and the honor of the tribesmen to her body -
she is a person like you, who makes mistakes and gets hurt and her own experience in this life is; As for your honor, it is in your sincerity, honesty, and morals with others and not with the members of her body.
And if you fear for the life of your daughter, you must subject this man who lived in a male environment to psychological examinations to ensure the safety of his mental and psychological powers -
and it is not a defect if he suffers from a psychological complex and he needs treatment and rehabilitation so that he can establish a healthy married life - do not hesitate with this condition ; Maleficent treachery increased its limit.
If you do not love your daughter - do the opposite of all that - program her that she was created to serve the male, whether it is her father, brother or husband, that her destiny for life is to serve the husband, no matter how much
she obtains educational certificates, convince her that her life is not complete without the shadow of a "man" - convince her to She is obedient and submissive to his orders in order to "keep" her home.
And if you stand next to the husband at the wedding ceremony; Do not allow the male to chant “money and the children” - your daughter was not created to be his children in exchange for a handful of money;
Objection and uproot this distorted thought so that this husband knows that your daughter is a dear and honorable person - childbearing is her decision - and a free woman is not tempted by a man's money.
If you really love your daughter - you should not care about the customs and traditions of society, which makes you justify the suppression of her freedom so that she does not become a "slave or maid" in their eyes -
do not allow anyone to interfere in your daughter's life and impose a psychological and social contract on her - do not make your daughter's body a place for discussion among the retarded circles; Don't allow them to.
If you really love your daughter; Do not condition him on trivial material and luxuries - your only condition is that he treat your daughter with respect and politeness - and any disputes that arise between them are resolved by understanding and discussion without beating -
and if he thinks of scolding her either in the name of anger or upbringing - consider this marriage void and that he has lost her forever; Let him know the value of your daughter.
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