Is there anything more obvious than a dog’s experience of visceral pleasures? From the wind that blows scents around to the feeling of sand under their paws. Try to enjoy life in its most elemental form.
Don’t want for too much.
Dogs are minimalist creatures and we could all learn from that – they certainly wouldn’t be coveting the latest 60in plasma screen television.
Do not dwell on an argument.
Dogs might occasionally snap at another who is becoming hugely irritating, but they do not linger on any ill thoughts. They move on quickly and let it go, forgetting that they were ever cross, as they forget about most things.
Dogs live in the moment.
It follows on naturally that dogs live for whatever is happening to them right now. We are both blessed and cursed with a higher brain function, but they don’t look back with regret or fret about the future.
Display no vanity.
Dogs have no ego and it is certainly not what drives them. For example, a canine in a spaceship would historically be more likely to be Soviet and going against its will than showing off like a human billionaire.
Dogs are loyal.
Occasionally we all know that a white lie is necessary, whereas a human with a dog’s mind would tell you that your new hairstyle actually looks horrendous. But generally speaking, their lack of subterfuge and deceit has to be seen as a virtue.
Dogs are loving.
Perhaps the most important lesson. The love of a dog is love at its most fundamental. It is love without aside, without jealousy, without fear of loss. It is love that has no complexity.
Perhaps the purpose of a dog is simply that they are not us. And are all the better for it. What do you think?
More than 40 million households have watched Sex Education.
Much of its success comes down to how it has rewritten the rules of on-screen teenage sex. So what exactly makes it so groundbreaking? And how is TV changing to catch up with today’s teenagers? thetimes.co.uk/article/the-se…
Nothing is too much for Sex Education, so long as it’s a teenage problem. A board with “sex story of the week” is set up in the writers’ room, the show’s creator, Laurie Nunn, explains.
Writers are encouraged to chuck in any idea they think is a genuine bedroom issue for teens.
Professional “sex educators” are consulted to make sure the show gets the message right. Wildly misunderstood problems are debunked. Porn is always in the background.
“It’s there in the subtext, as in ‘these are the things that porn is not teaching you well’,” says Nunn.
There is no doubt that using national insurance as the means to raise the social care levy hits working-age people hardest, and that recent generations of young people have had an incredibly tough time economically. So why aren’t they more angry? thetimes.co.uk/article/boomer…
A person of working age with average earnings before the pandemic will now pay 20% of their income in income tax, National Insurance contributions (NICs) and the new levy.
They may be repaying their student loan too.
A pensioner receiving the same amount in pension income will pay almost half that.
On Tuesday, Carré Otis was interviewed for almost five hours by a detective in Paris
She alleges that she was repeatedly raped from the age of 17 by Gérald Marie, now 71, the former European boss of the leading agency Elite
He strenuously denies the allegations
Otis is one of 15 women, almost all former models, who have come forward as part of a criminal investigation opened into Marie in France. Seven, including an ex-BBC journalist, have so far travelled to Paris to speak to the lead detective
Bamiyan held rock festivals, boasted Afghanistan’s first female governor, and the first girls’ cycling team.
Now the hotels are closed and so is the airport. Women are almost nowhere to be seen and behind closed doors families are hiding their daughters. thetimes.co.uk/article/the-ta…
Today, as the Taliban again roam Bamiyan bazaar, cruising through the valley in pickups with white flags on top and taking selfies in front of the Buddha-shaped cavities in the cliffs, it is a place of fear.
“They tried to erase our history and our identity,” said Baryali Amiri, a civil society activist who was 18 when the Taliban destroyed ancient Buddhas in the valley.
"I shot a bullet of pain into the darkness and it ricocheted and came back as solace."
Rather than hide from questions about her partner’s death, @poppy_damon posted the news on twitter. The response was a remarkable outpouring of love and understanding
"My husband, Pete, was 34 when he died. He took his own life. And I found him. This is the news I have delivered hundreds of times now: three facts — over and over."
"I have told family and friends and colleagues and neighbours. But so many strangers too: the person at the bank, the woman at the supermarket. When someone says, “How are you?”, I cannot fake a smile."