when i counsel couples who are planning to get married... The first question i ask is... "Do you have life insurance?"
The second question ... "Who is the beneficiary?"
The Third question ... "if something happens to you does your partner have access to your resources?"
Fourth question "does your partner understand how your money works i.e. when you get paid... how you get paid... your revenue streams... Whose name is on the accounts?"
I'm going to say a few things... most of them will be uncomfortable ... all need to be said... beginning with... it was a campaign event nytimes.com/2024/01/08/us/…
something i needed but didn't get was conversations on how the bodies of black men change after 28... and the additional support you need to care for yourself well
1) Go to the doctor... early and often...
I don't care if you "feel fine"/ workout/ect
Find a doctor (recommendations are great) that you can be honest and consistent with