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41 Gigantic lessons from the book 'Good Vibes, Good Life' by Vex Kings

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In this book, the author Vex Kings shares his experiences when his father died when he was just a baby, how his family was often homeless and he grew up in troubled neighborhoods, where he regularly experienced racism.

Despite this, he successfully turned his whole life around.

I, hereby, list down 41 gigantic lessons from this awesome book.

These learning are worded and appended in a way that makes it easier for most of us to understand and absorb.

1. The good, the bad and the ugly events are all a part of who I have become.

2. We cannot define where greatness begins or ends. We can only strive to become better.

3. Stop trying to impress people.

Impress yourself, stretch yourself, test yourself. Be your best version.

Outdoing yourself is your daily task. You are competing with your version of yesterday.

4. Self-love is all about first accepting yourself unconditionally and then making positive changes to become even better.

Same way, you can love any of your family members - accept them unconditionally, and encourage them to be even better.

5. The vibrations we put out, are always pulling in stuff that is vibrating at a similar frequency - just like tuning into a radio station.

The common misconception is that you will start feeling good only once you have what you want.

6. Staying around positive people, when you are down, is an excellent antidote to absorb some of their positive energy, then start radiating that positive energy yourself and thus attracting more of it from the universe.

7. Smile more often. Even if you fake a smile, you can trick your brain into thinking that you are happy, and thereby releasing feel-good hormones called endorphins, which make you feel better in return.

8. Most judgments start from hatred, which is a low vibrational state. It only leads to attracting unpleasant experiences in our life.

9. Greatness starts with being grateful.

In order to truly feel grateful towards any particular thing, imagine your life in its absence, as deep as you can think, and you will soon realize how grateful you truly have been.

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11. Your longest relationship in life is with your own self.

If you can manage this relationship well, give it the importance it deserves, can you manage other relationships well.

12. If someone says that they are hurt by your actions, then you must believe what they are saying rather than ignore their viewpoint just because you did not feel anything hurting in what you said.

Accepting that they are hurt will change your behavior to empathy.

13. All relationships require work. They require tremendous understanding and endless communication.

In spite of all this, they can be very challenging. None of us is perfect. So, no relationship is perfect.

14. You will know that it is your soul talking to you when you arrive at the answer without going through the reasoning process.

15. Everyone's perspective, including our own, is limited and subjective. It is based on what we gather and process from all around us.

16. There is no way you can avoid negativity in your life. The more people you are connected with, the more negativity would be thrown at you. But no one can hurt you without your permission.

The best response to negativity thrown at you is silence and joy.

17. You cannot please everyone, neither you should even attempt it. Do not be too harsh on yourself.

18. Your purpose is not to be in a job you dislike for the rest of your life.

Harmful workplaces push us into an unhealthy mental state, leading to an unhealthy physical state.

19. You won't be important to all the people all the time, and that's why you have to be important to yourself. Learn to enjoy your own company.

20. You have done things some people said you could never do. You have also done things even you thought you may never be able to do.

Appreciate yourself. Pat yourself. Go out and celebrate.

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22. Embrace your uniqueness.

Are you considered weird? Awesome.

23. Forgive yourself for all the bad decisions you made, for the lack of belief, for hurting others and yourself.

Forgive yourself for everything. Important is to move forward with a better mindset.

24. You cannot expect others to be kind to you if you are not kind to yourself.

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26. You cannot move forward with the thoughts that hold you back.

27. Once you mute the noise of the world, you would realize that there is nothing that you cannot do.

28. If you cannot change the situation, change your perception of it. That is where your personal power is. Take charge.

29. Your job is not to get rid of negative events or negative thoughts - you cannot. Rather, your job is to improve your response to these events and thoughts.

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31. Your job is not to get rid of negative events or negative thoughts - you cannot.

Rather, your job is to improve your response to these events and thoughts.

32. Things are easier when you are in the mood to do them.

But if you are looking for a greater life, you have to commit yourself to the same effort even when you are not in the mood.

Commitment to your dreams, therefore, is the greatest virtue.

33. Achievement of goals leads to the release of happy hormones in the body- one of which is dopamine. If you break up a bigger goal into smaller ones, then more goals are achieved as a natural bi-product of the bigger goal, leading to more dopamine release, which is good for you

34. One glass of alcohol usually costs more than a book. Which one is more likely to change your life? People usually invest in the wrong places.

35. The past cannot be changed, but our perception of the same can be.

This belief in a good reason behind everything allows us to have a positive perspective of the past, and therefore allows us to build a positive future.

36. Some of the best changes in life result from some of the most painful experiences. Pain is good.

37. When you are praying for a situation to change, remember that you are in that situation so that you can change. Everything is connected. Everything has a reason.

38. Working 5 days a week to search for those 'free' 2 days is such a waste of life. A greater life of purpose is definitely possible.

39. Chase your excitement without any conditions.

You don't need to justify what you are doing if you are excited about it.

You just have to do it. If you follow your excitement, the universe will throw more exciting things at you.

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