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Sep 17, 2021 • 12 tweets • 3 min read • Read on X
As the world becomes increasingly grumpy, the courteous gentleman has the opportunity not only to make a difference in the lives of others, but also to distinguish himself.

Here are some thoughts (notes-to-self, really) on being that kind of man.
On greeting others with enthusiasm, like you're actually happy to see them--

On treating your conversations like they matter--

On kindness towards the overlooked--

On learning names, especially of the overlooked--

On avoiding defensiveness--

On accepting compliments--

On saying thank you the best way--

On never dismissing others--

On embracing small talk--

On not overstaying your welcome--

And, of course, your courtesy becomes all the more potent when you do it from a position of strength.

You are not nice, not domesticated, not a pushover hiding weakness behind manners--you are a potentially dangerous man who chooses kindness and warmth.

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