I miss the old Subnis Wada in Indore. It was a bit like Winterfell meets Belvedere Castle. As a kid, running around exploring it during the vacations was so much fun. Then came the mid-90s and the family sold it to a developer. Now an ugly shopping complex stands there.
I don't care that a shopping complex stands there. That's how the world works. My dad's generation moved out of Indore to growing urban centers like Bombay, Pune, Delhi, Bangalore, and some abroad. The wada had to be sold.
I just hate how ugly the complex is.
I lived mainly in highway construction site temporary apartments or then urban apartments, to this day. So the seemingly infinite passages and stairways and storage rooms and trees and backlanes of the old Subnis Wada are memories from 30 years ago that are still vivid.
We could only visit during vacations. Indore isn't the easiest of places to get to by train directly from most of peninsular India, which is the result of an old feud I'll do a thread on one day. So when we visited, we visited for a while. I can still feel the cold stone steps.
The place was quite decrepit. Great grandpa, the last of the Rai Ratans, died relatively young at 58. His kids did pretty okay. We never grew up poor. But we also didn't have (at least then) the familial wealth you'd expect from your family having such a huge head start.
So while that wada was cool and charming and fascinating to explore, it was also a reminder of what had once been. Rather than what could be. 90s brought economic growth, especially in retail. The wada was in prime location. Hardly any family remained in Indore. It was sold.
I wish all least one of the 7 brothers from my grandfather's generation (the family had a lot of Satte Pe Satta jokes) had had the money to preserve and renovate that wada. Maybe turn it into a public museum plus library. But none had it. They had families to raise elsewhere.
When I think back to those old store rooms and dusty cupboards and all the books and magazines and gazettes and photographs and letters and and and.... I am pretty sure it was sold as junk by the weight. And used to serve pohey in sarafa.
Coming to America, a culture that obsessively documents, protects, and displays its history made me realize how much history was and is still at our fingertips in India to preserve.
For example these 1500-2000 year old caves are strewn all over western Maharashtra, in the thriving Bombay-Pune-Nashik economic and population hub. There are these carvings. No signs or any info translating most of them! I was so frustrated!!
There is sooooooo much ancient stuff within a cab drive from anywhere in Bombay, Pune, Nashik. And so much ancient graffiti and/or advertising and/or art carved there. But there is almost nothing, no one to tell you anything! Would cost a lot less than a giant statue.
Like this. WTF? Someone climbed all the way up there to carve this. What is it? A donor or sponsor name (common in Buddhist rock caves)? A poem? A dirty joke? Some dude professing his love? There is an astonishing absence of info at the most iconic historic sites in India.
Which seems all the more stark visiting from a country where if you stand in one place long enough, they will put up an information plaque next to you with details about your ancestry. US turns the tiniest bits of history into loving public legacies. India ignores the biggest.
Peak US love of history I saw was on the east river promenade near where I live. Part of the river had been dredged to build this promenade a decade or so ago. In that dredging, a lot of bodies were found. A bronze sculpture on the wall shows what was dug up, with these notes!
Just fifteen or so years ago, people here felt moved enough by those nameless faceless bodies dumped in the east river over the city's violent past (& present) to say, hey, this is a nice jogging promenade but let's also have a keepsake of these dredged people. I love NYC!
For example, this street near my place is called Dvorak place. Made me wonder, is this named after the guy who designed the other non-QWERTY keyboard?
Nope, a quick search and nearby plaque reveals it is named for Czech composer Antonin Dvorak who once lived on this street.
Most people in NYC won't care to look up this history, but the great thing is that those who want to, will find it. Randomest little history spots and signs all over NYC delight the history nerd in me. And I'm told London is a whole other level of random history keeping.
Is it too much to ask that THE most historic and archaeological sites in India have at least as much signage and information as the randomest service plaza on the NY Thruway?
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Ugh, it's another weekend where this artificially created scarcity of an #INDvPAK "cricket" match at an ICC event is hyped, elevated, fetishized to disgusting levels.
The last real cricket match between India & Pakistan was played in 2007. When the rivalry was a real rivalry.
The last time India and Pakistan played a real cricket match, Sourav Ganguly scored a double century (and then wisely retired). Today, he is the figurehead president of Indian cricket (as Pappu Shah makes real decisions).
That's how long ago it's been. In real terms.
I'm not saying "real cricket" means just test cricket. I consider the epic bilateral ODI series played between India and Pakistan in the late 90s and early to mid 00s as real cricket too. Because they were part of the natural cricket cycle, the normal calendar. Real rivalry.
This is true. Until DDLJ, parental approval was not glamorized or put on a pedestal as something to be sought out in choosing your life partner. And foisted North India specific patriarchy on all India & even otherwise progressive diaspora.
Until DDLJ came along, parental objection was almost universally treated like something the parents were wrong in insisting on. From offering "blank cheque" to hiring thugs to threatening self harm.
DDLJ said even a London couple should get parents' permission in everything.
"Ancestors worked for Holkars so dealt with Brits a lot. Like how Scindia was easier to say than Shinde."
"Wait, Scindia are Shinde?"
"Yes!"
"Shinde!?"
I'm amazed how many don't know!
Also Dubey, Chaubey etc. Some Brit sahib went, croikey, Dwee-way-dee, that's a mouthful! I'm just gonna call you... Dubey, you Chaubey, that's much easier, don't you agree Lieutenant Archibald Thingletonberry-Postlethwaite?
Quite right, sir!
Do CBSE textbooks refer to Mahadji from the 18th century as Scindia or Shinde? Growing up in Maharashtra at least, it was written as Shinde. And Marathi newspapers like Sakal still make it a point of writing it as Shinde.
I hope more people start thinking this way because I'm seeing an amazingly high amount of schadenfreude against privileged brats thinking when this is downright fascism.
A republic without habeas corpus is no longer a republic. That's the issue at stake here. Not your personal dislikes in Bollywood.
This is also fundamentally different from the thousands if not lakhs of detainees around India who most often don't get their day in court or can't afford good legal representation.
This is the best help money can buy. Court dates. But still, dude is in jail. It's not about SRK.
In which @cricketingview uses simple objective data to make a great observation, but people hate it because it doesn't gel with the dramatic sports media and sports social media narrative.
Our failing as a species is that we value drama above facts.
A culture so deeply into hero worship is bound to react testily when someone just uses simple numbers and facts to show that their heroes were perhaps not as exceptional as generally thought.
This bit by @cricketingview reminds me of when I try to explain the Nash Equilibrium to students.
But the simple fact is that if most cricket fans truly got what Kartikeya is saying, there would not be much cricket analysis. Or any sports analysis. Cos no drama.
If you're a non-Indian who follows me, Indian democracy is at that stage where the govt continues to jail a 23 year old son of the biggest Bollywood superstar for attending a party with drugs hoping that his being Muslim will distract their masses from a 3 metric tons drug bust.
Let me put it in terms my American liberal friends will understand. The Indian govt is currently doing everything Trump would, if he could do whatever he wanted.
The Indian Parliament or the Indian Supreme Court should just make it explicit that there is no habeas corpus in India anymore.