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7 Nov, 10 tweets, 2 min read

Psychology of First Impression You Should Know.

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Likely First Impression.

1. Physical beauty - Healthy.

2. Dressing smartly - Successful.

3. Appearing wealthy - Influential and Important.

4. More eye contact - Intelligent and Confident.

5. Speaking faster - More competent.

6. Baby face - More trustworthy.

7. Easy, effortless - More adventurous, extroverted and trustworthy.

8. Straight posture - More competent, focused.

9. Practical/affordable shoes - More agreeable.

10. Stylish shoes - More wealthy.

11. New/highly polished shoes - More anxious/needing to belong.

Psychological process of how first impressions are formed in 7 seconds.

1. Person's Appearance.

- If you look at a woman's appearance, if her clothes looked expensive and she is well groomed,

- You assume that she is successful and wealthy.

2. Body Language.

- If you look at a man's body language, he takes large strides and walked fast,

- You assume that he is confident, powerful and determined.

3. You Make Assumptions About Their Life.

- Based on the clothes, you tend to make assumption about his/her job/lifestyle.

4. You Form A First Impression Filter.

- From the few seconds you saw a person, a very quick first impression is formed.

- Even if you see the same person again, it will be filtered using the first impression.

Things To Remember To Make A Good First Impression.

- Dress better.
- Make frequent eye contact.
- Smile often.
- Ensure you are in pleasant mood.
- Adjust your voice, gestures, postures and words to the other person.
- Be confident about yourself.
- Express clearly.

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How about you take full control over your emotions, thoughts and actions?

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