I had a .5% chance of losing our first baby and that happened six months before the pandemic began, so, you know, when you experience improbable loss like that, it makes the risk of going to say, a bar, feel less worthwhile for the baby you're grateful to have alive, for example.
I respect that everyone has different risk tolerances, and at this point in the pandemic, I spend a lot of time weighing my mental health against risk of the behavior I think would contribute positively to my mental health.
Must be nice to hypothesize that you would have felt totally cool with having an unvaccinated kid out in the world, though. I wish I could live in that brain.
Also, the absolute panic and dread that washes over you after you get a Covid exposure email from daycare and have to consider the reality of quarantining for two weeks as a result of that exposure is no joke, even if you're not worried about illness.
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honestly it's extra rage-inducing that this "debate" between a few old men about whether parental leave should be guaranteed and paid in this country is happening simultaneously with Roe no longer being law of the land.
The government is reaffirming its position that women should have babies no matter what but that also the act of having a baby or parenting is so devoid of value that you should not be entitled to guaranteed paid leave for three months or even one (!).
FMLA, as it stands, doesn't even protect all workers from just not being fired for having a baby, but sure, man, let's just telegraph to the world how much we don't value women.
A few thoughts on Pregnancy and Infant Loss Remembrance Day—one, is I am adamant on using "pregnancy loss" as opposed to "miscarriage." "Miscarriage" imbues blame, like the birthing parent did something wrong. But maybe more subtlety, "loss" makes grief more inclusive.
People who do not get recognized nearly enough, imho, in pregnancy and infant loss are non-birthing partners. I've heard from a lot of them over the past two years. Their bodies don't do the thing, so they feel less connected to and entitled to grief, which is simply not true.
The culture of shame and silence around pregnancy and infant loss—created and perpetuated by people who have politicized pregnancy itself—makes this particular grief challenging for everyone, but non-birthing partners especially who can feel helpless through the process.
These incompetent old white men love using Christmas as a deadline to pressure legislative action even though they all also know they don’t actually care about being home and it only punishes staff. Just get rid of the debt limit already!
Love, Meredith, pointlessly on the floor of the Capitol because of the “fiscal cliff,” New Years Eve 2013
I wish I could remember who took this picture of me, likely on a BlackBerry. BUT EVERYONE HAD A GREAT TIME and I got in a serious fight with a photographer, putting my body between him and a colleague after a Biden scrum. To think it only got infinitely more broken from there!
I don’t often if ever grant on-the-record interviews to other reporters. But after being contacted for this story, I spoke at length in defense of @feliciasonmez and put my name to it. Lived experience should not be disqualifying and you cannot “both-sides” sexual assault.
As @carter_sherman bravely shows through her disclosure here, her personal experience made her reporting better and more sensitive, not worse. Part of why political news is so broken is because privileged white men who have never needed govt protection or support guide coverage.
One anecdote I shared was how in 2009, when I was a new reporter on the Hill covering the ACA debate, I did not get employer insurance and was uninsurable because of a preexisting condition. A colleague chastised me for saying this aloud because people might think I was “biased.”
Joe Biden's press staff circulating Jennifer Rubin columns to "allies" to tweet and Politico covering this as if it's some big scandal instead of merely dopey behavior is why everyone in DC should get the f out of it every once in a while.
literal white nationalists attacked the Capitol and wanted to murder members of Congress THIS YEAR, but the last thing published before the apocalypse/end of the republic will just be "Look who got snubbed from Ron Klain's birthday party!"
anyway, I hate you all sometimes and I think you should know that or likely already do!
🧵 A few thoughts on the Ben Smith piece on Politico (which seems like a crazy thing to write about in a detached way considering he was one of the big figures who launched the site. The anecdotal lede hints at a conflict w/o directly addressing it) (1/4) nytimes.com/2021/08/29/bus…
"A workplace culture *some* employees described as grinding and *sometimes* sexist" is an insane thing to write as a person who worked there—either you were too high up in the Politico caste system to know or you're being intentionally obtuse about the place (2/4)
Politico Pro is just Congressional Quarterly! Politico is getting credit for creating a product that already existed. Now that Politico sold for $1B, The Economist Group looks like an asshole for gutting CQ for parts WHEN IT ACTUALLY WAS AN EXTREMELY GOOD, VALUABLE PRODUCT (3/4)