Thread by @avflox

But also it's such good practice. Who doesn't hate the violence of "we need to talk" with zero context as to what? With an agenda, everyone knows what's going to be covered and can advocate for a time when they'll be appropriately resourced to have that conversation.

https://twitter.com/wagatwe/status/1462953364635865090

I also support the practice of adjourning relationship conversations to sleep, use the restroom, eat, cuddle, reestablish connection, etc. I will never see those marathon sessions where people talk and talk into exhaustion as generative.

I'm a big fan of people processing their own feelings individually before meeting to discuss a situation.

I'm also a big supporter of ending conversations that aren't going anywhere, or where people have become too activated to really dialogue.