After her mum and aunt both passed away from breast cancer, Kate Parker underwent a double mastectomy to avoid the same outcome.
Then, doctors found a fatal tumour in her liver. trib.al/dkWt2oz
Kate was just 12 when my mum died of breast cancer in 2000.
In 2015, her mum’s sister, aunt Judy, also passed away from the condition.
After tests, it turned out that Kate had the BRCA2 mutation.
The BRCA2 gene produces proteins that help repair damaged DNA, and a mutation of it greatly increases the carrier’s risk of developing breast cancer and other cancers such, as ovarian.
At 28 she decided instantly to have a preventative double mastectomy – surgery to remove both her breasts and decrease her risk
There was no way she wanted to face what her mum and aunt had
They also found out that Kate’s cousin - Judy’s daughter - had the mutation too. She decided to get a double mastectomy as well.
The procedures in 2016 appeared to go fine initially, but the skin around the wounds became infected, and Kate was unable to shake a constant feeling of tiredness.
After the infection failed to clear up, doctors sent her for blood tests - revealing very high liver function.
She was then sent for a CT scan.
It showed she had a 12cm by 8cm tumour in her liver.
‘I’m not one for getting emotional. As soon as I was told I just wanted to know the plan’, Kate says.
But after that mass was removed - along with 60% of Kate’s liver - doctors ran a biopsy and had another shock to deliver: it was malignant and tests showed she actually had bowel cancer.
Doctors planned a colonoscopy to find the primary tumour, but Kate then suffered a collapsed lung, forcing a hospital stay.
When they finally undertook the procedure, surgeons couldn’t see her bowel because the tumour was so big.
It was then that the final bombshell dropped.
As plans were being made to remove it, doctors discovered that spots had appeared on her lungs.
It had spread. She was now inoperable.
Since then Kate has undertaken every form of treatment offered by the NHS, but the cancer has continued to spread.
At only 33, she’s made a ‘f**k it’ list of things she still wants to experience.
They include going to Tokyo to see the cherry blossoms, doing a road trip in America, and to have a flying lesson in a Spitfire.
‘I didn’t think I would still be here so I’m cherishing the time I’ve been given.’ she says.
Kate makes another important point: ‘When people talk about cancer they clam up as it’s just horrible but it’s so important to discuss symptoms.’
My parents have kept the habit their whole lives, as did both sets of grandparents before them.
Having started in my early 20s and maintained a box-a-day addiction ever since, in many ways I’m a walking target for tobacco companies.
In theory, that should also make me a target for health interventions, too.
But I see the gory pictures on the box and ignore them, I pay the extra duty each time it’s upped, and I continue to light up despite knowing the implications.
Imagine becoming a millionaire overnight, all the things you could buy and do!
Although it seems as though winning a huge sum of cash could change your life for the better, that’s not always the case.
As they say, be careful what you wish for….
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One minute, Ben was a normal family man with a successful career.
Next, he was leaving the National Lottery office in Aintree with an envelope stuffed full of cash and an overflowing bank account.
‘My life changed overnight,’ he recalls.
‘There was so much adrenaline and excitement. But then I was suddenly exhausted and my mind was racing. I was thinking “What am I going to do with all this cash?”’
Last month, Adam Carver’s world was turned upside down when he was wrongfully accused of grooming children, and labelled a ‘Jimmy Savile Tribute Act’ 😔
His crime? Being queer and performing in drag for children 🙄
In 2018, Adam created FANTABULOSA!, an interactive drag show for kids with a troupe of drag artists, which performed nationally.
He wanted to create spaces for LGBTQ+ people to feel celebrated, empowered and joyful - an icon ❤️
The success of the event led him to host the family-friendly PALAVER! Festival in October 2021 - a day-long celebration of LGBTQ+ inclusive performance.
But halfway through the project Adam suddenly became the centre of an online attack aiming to shut the show down.
The leader of the opposition has launched a scathing take down of Boris Johnson after it emerged the government held up to seven (yes, seven) Christmas parties last December while the rest of the country followed strict Covid rules.
‘While the British people followed the rules and made deep personal sacrifices during each lockdown, the Prime Minister’s staff laughed about covering up their Christmas party.’
Arthur can finally be laid to rest after his father agreed to release his body.
The six-year-old boy has been left at the mortuary where his post-mortem was carried out 16 months ago amid a legal dispute over who had the right to bury him.
On Friday his dad Thomas Hughes was jailed for 21 years after being found guilty of manslaughter.
He was regularly starved, beaten, fed salt, and made to stand in the hallway for up to 14 hours a day while his step mother's biological children were doted upon.
His stepmum Emma Tustin was handed a life sentence with a minimum of 29 years after being convicted of murder.
Defenceless Arthur suffered ‘unsurvivable’ brain injuries after smashing Arthur’s head against the hallway wall in June at their home in Solihull, West Midlands.