Last month, Adam Carver’s world was turned upside down when he was wrongfully accused of grooming children, and labelled a ‘Jimmy Savile Tribute Act’ 😔
His crime? Being queer and performing in drag for children 🙄
In 2018, Adam created FANTABULOSA!, an interactive drag show for kids with a troupe of drag artists, which performed nationally.
He wanted to create spaces for LGBTQ+ people to feel celebrated, empowered and joyful - an icon ❤️
The success of the event led him to host the family-friendly PALAVER! Festival in October 2021 - a day-long celebration of LGBTQ+ inclusive performance.
But halfway through the project Adam suddenly became the centre of an online attack aiming to shut the show down.
‘Transphobic blogs painted the project as a “national scandal worthy of public enquiry” and trolls took to social media to challenge my suitability to be around children,’ Adam writes.
Comments ranged from thinly-veiled concerns about safeguarding to outrageous accusations of child-grooming and paedophilia.
‘It was brutal to see the ease with which total strangers would happily compare me to a serial rapist and child abuser simply for existing authentically.’
‘These comments are examples of the oldest, most vicious and flawed tropes of homophobia and transphobia; that LGBTQ+ people are somehow predators and simply by existing, pose an inherent danger to young people.’
‘To be caught up in the middle of it was deeply painful, devastating and frightening in equal measure.’
‘But as hurtful as this response was, it was a reminder of how desperately a queer festival for children and their families is needed. It’s what I needed as a child.’
Growing up in the 90s, Adam’s formative years were lived under the influence of Section 28, the homophobic law introduced by Thatcher’s Conservative government in 1988 to stop councils and schools ‘promoting the teaching of the acceptability of homosexuality.’
‘I couldn’t imagine a future because there was no blueprint to follow. The seeds of shame had been sewn from the moment I recognised my difference.’
‘The vicious response I received to the festival this year shook me, but also strengthened my resolve – it was evidence that projects like PALAVER! are sorely needed.’
‘With Stonewall’s 2017 School Report showing that nearly half of LGBT+ pupils are bullied in Britain’s schools, and more than two in five trans young people have attempted to take their own life, we need positive queer representation for children more than ever.’
My parents have kept the habit their whole lives, as did both sets of grandparents before them.
Having started in my early 20s and maintained a box-a-day addiction ever since, in many ways I’m a walking target for tobacco companies.
In theory, that should also make me a target for health interventions, too.
But I see the gory pictures on the box and ignore them, I pay the extra duty each time it’s upped, and I continue to light up despite knowing the implications.
Imagine becoming a millionaire overnight, all the things you could buy and do!
Although it seems as though winning a huge sum of cash could change your life for the better, that’s not always the case.
As they say, be careful what you wish for….
[A THREAD]
One minute, Ben was a normal family man with a successful career.
Next, he was leaving the National Lottery office in Aintree with an envelope stuffed full of cash and an overflowing bank account.
‘My life changed overnight,’ he recalls.
‘There was so much adrenaline and excitement. But then I was suddenly exhausted and my mind was racing. I was thinking “What am I going to do with all this cash?”’
The leader of the opposition has launched a scathing take down of Boris Johnson after it emerged the government held up to seven (yes, seven) Christmas parties last December while the rest of the country followed strict Covid rules.
‘While the British people followed the rules and made deep personal sacrifices during each lockdown, the Prime Minister’s staff laughed about covering up their Christmas party.’
After her mum and aunt both passed away from breast cancer, Kate Parker underwent a double mastectomy to avoid the same outcome.
Then, doctors found a fatal tumour in her liver. trib.al/dkWt2oz
Kate was just 12 when my mum died of breast cancer in 2000.
In 2015, her mum’s sister, aunt Judy, also passed away from the condition.
After tests, it turned out that Kate had the BRCA2 mutation.
The BRCA2 gene produces proteins that help repair damaged DNA, and a mutation of it greatly increases the carrier’s risk of developing breast cancer and other cancers such, as ovarian.
Arthur can finally be laid to rest after his father agreed to release his body.
The six-year-old boy has been left at the mortuary where his post-mortem was carried out 16 months ago amid a legal dispute over who had the right to bury him.
On Friday his dad Thomas Hughes was jailed for 21 years after being found guilty of manslaughter.
He was regularly starved, beaten, fed salt, and made to stand in the hallway for up to 14 hours a day while his step mother's biological children were doted upon.
His stepmum Emma Tustin was handed a life sentence with a minimum of 29 years after being convicted of murder.
Defenceless Arthur suffered ‘unsurvivable’ brain injuries after smashing Arthur’s head against the hallway wall in June at their home in Solihull, West Midlands.