So, as you can probably imagine, I've been having a a lot more political conversations lately, which has led to me arguing with people with different views than mine. And I've learned a trick. Before engaging in an argument, try to get both parties to make a statement of belief.
Conservatives especially, but not exclusively, take positions of opposition. Think about how they're obsessed with inflation right now, but are offering absolutely no ideas other than "inflation bad." So instead of engaging with their reaction, insist on a statement of belief.
If they suggest not taking action on climate change, ask "Do you believe climate change exists?" or "Do you believe we have to take action on climate change?" It takes away room to quibble about details, and stops them from just parrotting talking points.
You don't need to be confrontational, this tends to actually cool down this sort of argument in my experience. Just insist that you're not prepared to have a conversation about politics or social issues unless they're willing to clearly express their beliefs on the issue.
My favourite recent example was hearing someone complaining about homeless people and Camp Hope. I asked them outright, "Do you believe the fact that we have homeless people in our city is acceptable?". Obviously, they said no, and that changed the whole conversation.
They couldn't just react anymore. They had to soften their position. They had to actually engage with me. Or, alternatively, they have to publicly admit to beliefs that I'm not willing to engage with. Give it a try!
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