Do you struggle to fall asleep because you’re trying to keep track of what you have to do the next day?
Try this. Get a $5 daily planner. Every night before bed write down your next day’s tasks. In the morning, review the list. Cross them off the next night and write a new list.
This eliminates what’s called the Zeigarnik effect. Your brain keeps tabs open about everything you’re trying to remember. 50 open tabs slows down your processing. And you’re afraid to sleep because they’ll all close and lose your lists. So your brain fights against deep sleep.
This works for more than daily tasks. Writing down your place in any project you haven’t completed also closes a tab. Your brain recognizes that memory is outsourced and it doesn’t have to track its place in the project anymore. That gives you back processing power.
Outsourcing your memory is a great way to keep yourself low-stress during the day and get better rest at night.
All for the cost of a $5 daily planner.
Buy a planner, close your tabs, and get a better night’s sleep.
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"Adam my marriage is cold and my spouse resents me. Sex is rare. What can I do?"
My DMs, email, and comment sections are packed with people asking me this. Their marriage is stuck and they want to get better but don't know how.
Here's a thread of my best resources to fix this.
Number 1, Let me show you what a good marriage looks like. If you've never seen one you can't imagine a solution. You need to know good from bad in order to do better or ask for changes.
Here's my guide to improving a marriage and how it should look.
While watching that video you may say, "This stuff sounds hard. How can I open up like that? I get nervous just thinking about it."
Chances are you might have attachment issues. Most people who have them don't realize it. Here's a guide on attachment.
Ladies, if you struggle to achieve orgasm with your partner, give these 5 tips a try.
These aren't your mom's Cosmo tips. These 5 practices are easy inclusions you can make starting today. Every couple who wants to boost their bonding and intimacy should follow these easy practices.
Even if you've experienced abuse or trauma.
Even if you've never had an orgasm.
The female sex drive and female orgasm work based on emotional intimacy, which requires feelings of safety and closeness plus healthy communication. The more of these you have, the easier it is to achieve orgasm.
These 5 tips focus on building these feelings. That makes it easy.
Want to have better sex? I've counseled hundreds of couples on improving their sex life. Many of those couples included women who had never before experienced an orgasm.
My new video shows you the top 5 ways to improve your sex life.
Many I've counseled had experienced sexual abuse or assault and didn't believe sex could be enjoyable for them. The 5 tips contained in this video comprise my best teachings on building more passion into your sex life.
Man or woman, these practices will get your motor running.
You’re unhappy because you’re not meant to be living like this.
It’s not just that your brain isn’t optimized for the modern world. The modern world sparks constant danger alarms in your brain. And it all runs counter to your biological imperatives.
You can’t live like this.
There’s a lot of people dunking on Trads today.
Keep in mind the modern view of traditional life has skewed into a parody where men beat every member of their family every day for fun and women cooked 18 meals by themselves each day for 34 kids
Few Americans remember our roots.
This is neither a defense of Trads or a condemnation of those who oppose them.
Neither group tends to have a clear vision of what’s behind us. History is distorted if you don’t know where to look or how to assess
The future will be new systems to fulfill old needs in right ways