Enjoyed a lot reading my 2nd newsletter from you today!
Subject - Get rid of such friends!
It's not late that I realised the points you have mentioned but today reading it, just firms up my belief of having done the right thing in the first place.
I'm glad I've got rid of friends: 1) The judgemental kind 2) The ones who think we HAVE to keep them Happy 3) The jealous / envious kind
I would like to share my experience of college life where I had many friends, but gradually as the college ended things became clear.
Though, I got a little late to realise:
How people misused others kindness in the name of friendship.
How easily people judged others irrespective of their situations/ circumstances, and some not even bothering to know the truth.
How the relationships became toxic when one person thinks, it is the responsibility of the other to keep him/her happy.
How the Best of friends became envious of each other just because of pity marks / assignments, which no longer mattered.
And people gradually got habitual of these things, and found it completely normal to make judgements, to expect others to keep them Happy and to be jealous of others success. Similar to a habit of using abusive words, in every sentence they speak, people got comfortable with it.
I wish everyone reflects upon their lives because more than getting rid of such friends, I would be more glad to see people getting rid of these habits. ❤️
Thank you @warikoo once again for this lovely newsletter. ☺️✌️
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