Thread by @CeeJayLove88

Yall keep asking ME why I'm NOT spending #xmas with my father, I WASN'T INVITED.

I don't believe in going places where I'm NOT invited, celebrated, embraced, empowered,or appreciated.

So,yeah. there ya go. Yall could practice NOT being in spaces that dont want yall there too.

Stop FORCING yallself in folks life then being MAD cause they not responding or reacting positively.
#ThinkAboutIt:
The more time you spend with people who don't fuck with you, the more time you miss out on spending time with people who DO fuck with you.

Oh and for the folks who said "spend the holiday with your mother (and "reconcile"🙄)", bro we AIN'T spoke since my Grandmother's Funeral in 2016.

Shordy NOT tryna fa-la-la-la-la with ME.🎅🏿

And I'm NOT knowingly expecting for her to be someone she has NEVER been, TF. 🤷🏿‍♀️

Let's NORMALIZE allowing people to be themselves and operating accordingly.

Let's DECIDE to have a level #SelfLOVE that doesn't allow self-betrayal, violation of healthy boundaries, or self deception.

Let's DISCONNECT and DISENGAGE from everything/one that harms / hurts you.😈

Just because YOU are valuable DOESN'T mean they value YOU.
👽🖤🤷🏿‍♀️
#carreisms
#LoveAlwaysCarre
#XOCarre
#clarityWITHcarre
#growthcreatesgreatness

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