I’m sorry you got called a loser who lives in a basement - I’ve had DMs that tell me to die and I don’t deserve to live.
I’ve had men follow me down when I’ve told them “no” or didn’t respond to them calling me beautiful. But me saying - that mostly cis white men get upset when people disagree with them when they’ve really just never experienced consequences is sending y’all into a tailspin.
1) I’ve never told anyone on this hellsite, no matter how grotesque they are to me, to die or that they’re fat or ugly or will die alone.
2) it is a fundamental truth that women experience more violent and awful harassment than men.
it’s great you don’t feel like I “seem” like any of those things but they’re things I literally get called EVERY DAY, so excuse me if I have less sympathy for a dude who said something a lot people disagreed w/pretty politely.
I mean, ffs, y’all keep proving my point that you don’t understand that they’re can be consequences for your actions. A consequence can be…a bunch of people disagreeing with you.
(Mostly) cis white men often wrongly claim harassment/pile-ons when they say something people disagree with.
Additionally, I will never apologize for identifying cis white men as the group that overwhelmingly do these things because they’re not used to being disagree with.
When I say cis white men, I mean cis white men. I mean that cis white men often react to disagreement by claiming they’re being harassed because they’re not used to being met with anything other than agreement.
dear men (yes men - I’m talking to you) - I don’t care about your opinions. If I wanted it - and trust me, I NEVER DO - I would ask for it. I am not required to listen to an opinion I never asked for.
Lol an extended family member bragged and said they beat a “nasty” case of Covid with monoclonal antibodies and then hash-tagged “natural immunity for life” and like…lol, natural immunity from a pharmaceutical-developed super drug used to treat cancer.
Also - your natural immunity means Jack shit against omicron
Imagine shunning a vaccination, getting Covid, and then bragging about beating it using a fairly “new” Covid treatment that was only recently approved to treat Covid….
What I’ve noticed is that all these dudes mad about “consequences” immediately go to very violent and harmful consequences when my original point was simply that people disagreeing with you is actually a consequence. You can say things, and people will disagree with you.
The men screaming in my mentions think I mean violent and harmful “consequences” because that’s what *they* impose on people. That’s what they’re used to. They can’t comprehend that people not agreeing with you and criticizing your opinions or actions, IS A CONSEQUENCE
If your mind immediately goes to doxxing as a consequence for saying something people disagree with, maybe ask yourself why.
If you’re threatening me with doxxing because you think that’s what I meant when I said cis white men aren’t used to disagreement, you’re making my point for me extremely well.
And by the way - yes, I’m scared of doxxing! I’m a woman on the internet that has a bunch of men calling me ugly and fat and stupid on a regular basic because I say things like “cis white men can’t handle disagreements”
Me: cis white men think that disagreement means they’re being harassed or piled-on because they’ve never really experienced consequences for their actions.
Cis white men: OH YEAH WELL CAN I DOX YOU? HOW DO YOU LIKE IT?
I mean, you’re the one who came into the mentions of pretty specific tweet to lecture me about targeted harassment and pile-ones and how I would react differently if it was someone different, dude.