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dr. taylor burrowes🌤

1 Jan, 8 tweets, 2 min read

11 fundamental questions to answer before marriage:

1. What’s their stress language?

How do they act when they’re overwhelmed?

2. How have they applied the lessons they learned from their previous mistakes?

Can I forgive them for all their previous mistakes without a trial?

3. Do we agree on important things + contrast comfortably elsewhere?

e.g. Life vision, core values/life principles, health, relationship standards, family planning.

4. Are they globally healthy or on track to be by their own merits?

Mentally, physically, financially, etc.

5. Are we passionately drawn to each other, do we feel energized or stifled by each other, are we enthusiastically connected?

6. Do we function well as a team?

Can we be both follower + leader effectively as appropriate, according to our values?

Do they collaborate or control?

7. Do we respect, honor + trust each other by default?

Can we communicate respectfully even if we doubt/disagree with each other’s intentions?

8. Do we make each other + our lives better or worse?

Do they take you away from your growth, peace of mind, health or add to it?

9. Do we conflict + confront in heathy ways?

Are they accountable or defensive?

Do we grow together or apart after we disagree?

Do we disagree + problem solve effectively?

10. Do we love in a way that’s healthy + meets my relationship needs?

Do we have secure attachment?

11. Judging them on who they are today, do I know their worst traits?

Can I accept + live with their flaws + vice versa?

Is their shadow side well integrated?

Do we bring reprieve to each other’s weaknesses or do we antagonize them?

Happy vetting and remember:

🧠+🔥+♥️=🎯

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What is VETTING?

It teaches you to not get attached emotionally or escalate to sex prematurely + not to force an outcome because of “feelings.”

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It allows you to clarify: who brings the best out of me + vice versa?

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You’re constantly doing it + seeking alignment with healthy connections to elevate your quality of life.

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It’s not “going out with x number of men or women,”

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May I be vulnerable with you?

I have an observation about myself that I think would be beneficial to share for others that may have a similar experience.

My social energy is so focused on helping people 24/7 that it’s very hard for me to talk to people without being a helper.

I have good friends, but we don’t talk much. I talk to Dennis + that’s fulfilling for “me.”

Every time I talk to my friends it shifts into me helping.

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When they ask about “me” I have very little to say.

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Embrace your feminine + masculine energy ladies and gentlemen.

🤴🏼Men need an effective quota of feminine traits to be healthy + integrated.

👸🏼Women need an effective quota of masculine traits to be healthy + integrated.

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And vice versa ☯️ Meaning some men need more masculine and some women need more feminine. They feel more comfortable in their complementary energy.

Trying to banish either energy internally results in unhealthy relationships + unhealthy identity (self) development.

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Do you know your authentic self?

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We don’t have to turn ourselves all the way up all the time.

And we get to adjust it as needed.

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Social adaptiveness is important for our protection, survival & overall quality of life.

The healthier we become the more clarity we have in our vibrations.

We are in harmony but can still flux and flow, we remain fluid.

The core self is the consistency that runs through all these fluctuations, our energetic fingerprint.

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