Struggling with divorce disorder.
Raped last year disorder.
Abused as a child disorder.
Subjected to discrimination disorder.
Mum died from cancer disorder.
House got broken into disorder.
Had a car crash disorder.
Boss is a bully disorder.
Living in poverty disorder.
Sound stupid?
Sound like none of those things actually constitute a mental disorder?
Then you’d be right.
And yet, it’s what the entire psychiatric system is based on.
We have been fed 100 years of lies, racism, homophobia, misogyny, elitism, classism and stigma - to the point where people actually believe their completely natural and normal reactions to stress and trauma are mental disorders which require medical treatment.
During this process, the people most impacted by faux diagnoses, over-medication, and lifelong pathologisation have been marginalised groups - but in my opinion, no one has paid a higher price than women and girls
I cannot stand by and watch as thousands more women and girls are diagnosed with ‘personality disorders’ and other bullshit disorders when they are clearly going thru stuff. My feminism, radical feminism, is not compatible with psychiatry and I will argue that til my last breath.
If you are interested in these arguments - keep an eye out for this coming out soon.
This book is the sledgehammer we need to smash this construct into tiny pieces.
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That anyone ever has to refer to their rapist as a woman is the ultimate form of gaslighting. What a disgusting and deliberately traumatic thing to do to someone who has been subjected to rape. Yet again, the feelings of male offenders above all else.
I saw another take on this the other day, where someone was arguing that those of us who use the phrase ‘VAWG’ or ‘violence against women and girls’ or ‘male violence’ are bigots & it’s a dogwhistle.
Millions of women and girls are killed, trafficked, raped and abused per year
Everyone knows who the main offenders are. Every police force knows what cases they are holding. They all know that the vast majority of victims are female (95%+) and the vast majority of suspects are male (99%+) - those stats are vital, and have been unchanged for decades
Me, 19 years old. I had ran away from my home town with my baby, 2 months before this was taken.
It’s such a weird feeling, running away to a town you had never heard of. But I think it made me who I am…
It taught me that I could rebuild my life and start afresh anywhere. It taught me that I was strong enough to live somewhere I knew no one, and no one knew me.
I moved there and picked up a newspaper, to find that a warehouse needed staff. I got the job and suddenly there I was
A teenager in a new town with a baby and a job packing stuff into boxes.
It was the freest and safest I had felt in years.
This pic reminds me of an afternoon spent playing in the freezing cold sunshine in a park I didn’t know, that I found when I got lost whilst on a walk
Boris and hundreds of others in power have been breaking restrictions whilst the rest of us suffer.
So what are we gonna do about it? Sit on our sofas and mouth off on Twitter?
We never protest, we never do anything. We never vote them out. We just moan 🙄
Sometimes I get tired by the social media outrage at the same time as the total lack of motivation for activism or change. Millions of people are fuming about this but millions of them will still vote them back in.
No one will really protest. They know this.
That’s why it was so fucking easy for them to outlaw protest - and no one even really noticed.
If I hear ‘lessons will be learned’ about the murder of Arthur Labinjo-Hughes, I might actually scream.
Been in this field since I was 19 years old and we haven’t learned a fucking thing. Still going round & round with IRs saying the same things, finding the same failings.
Every SCR or IR I have ever read comes down the the same things:
Professionals are overworked and don’t not receive good enough supervision
Training is too shallow and too basic to handle these cases
Professionals are burned out & traumatised, creating lack of empathy
Professionals hold too many cases and it has done nothing but increase for a decade
Biases and stereotypes are impacting practice everywhere and not being adequately addressed
We don’t believe children and we don’t believe women
We live through all these terrible and amazing life experiences.
We grow, struggle, develop, move on, work on it, evolve, and shift.
Saddening to build all of that wisdom, and then die.
I wish we had a more useful way of sharing collective knowledge without elitism & money.
Proper guts me that we have hoarded knowledge and information, and then commercialised it all. We buy it and sell it. We keep it behind paywalls and in institutions where only certain people are allowed access and only if they follow rules.
Wisdom and experience isn’t valued.
This really is at the crux of the qualitative/quantitative research contention - this belief that qualitative research and data is ‘soft’ and not worth anything in comparison to stats, that people have been led to believe are objective and infallible.
More & more violent men and their defenders are twigging that they can use trauma, ‘ACEs’ and their own experiences of abuse to justify their violence against women & girls.
We must not let this narrative succeed or become accepted in practice, theory or legislation
We have decades of psychological theory which contests this, but it’s an easy and seductive explanation for male violence against women - and so many people accept it to be true under the whole ‘hurt people hurt people’ message.
This doesn’t stand up to basic logic though…
If it was true that victims of abuse and male violence went on to be violent criminals themselves, the majority of all violent offenders would be women and girls. As victims, they outnumber men, but men make up 97-99% of all violent offenders.