Thread by @TheRealHoarse

Texas conservative calls public educators “otherwise unemployable adults.”

Sullivan’s father was a high school football coach who moved the family all-around Texas chasing coaching jobs.

Every one of these guys is a broken child pretending to be a strong adult.

https://twitter.com/MQSullivan/status/1479839070893264898

For real, it is so automatic that there is some kind of emotionally stunted childhood behind every one of these semi-sociopathic blowhards, it has become a game to go find it.

Trump, Tucker Carlson, whoever… you pick the conservative, I’ll tell you what made them this way.

Sullivan’s childhood was one destabilizing episode after another as his dad did what he loved as a coach but made little money and frequently relocated the family.

The original post is about his own childhood. It isn’t about teachers. It’s about his dad.

These guys are all sad. Therapy could have helped them.

Instead, they grow up into these fractured man-boys with underdeveloped emotional range and an obsession with exploiting others for money, power, and recognition.

That’s the Male Republican Boilerplate Bio.

It is not healthy to grow up to be like these guys.

They’re all broken in their own way and they are magnetically attracted to each other because while healthy people look down on their greed, selfishness and exploitation… in the GOP, those character flaws are celebrated.

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Post-script: some folks are serving up names in response to the “give me a name; I’ll tell you how they got this way” comment.

I’ll do my best to hit some of them.

Important note: I am not a psychologist or psychiatrist. My opinions are not diagnoses nor could they be.

If psychs disagree with me about something, they are invariably right and I am invariably wrong.

My experience is personal. I’ve had to learn how to “run the software” that drives some of these types of people to manage them in my own life.

Once you understand how they’re programmed, their behaviors are just outputs.

Anyway, let’s go.

Tucker Carlson:

Accomplished father; wealthy stepmother; handed every advantage: handed his first media job.

Stunted by privilege.

Kids build competence and then confidence.

They do things for themselves and build a healthy sense of competence and self-confidence.

Tucker didn’t have to do things for himself though.

Tucker Carlson didn’t succeed; he merely benefitted.

He is terrified of an even playing field; and by people who have achieved with none of his privilege.

He converts that terror into a rage towards what he is most afraid of: people who did the most with the fewest of his advantages.

eg Serena Williams, Greta Thunberg.

Charlie Kirk: Feral misfit left alone in the Koch Bros’ woods.

Kirk is interesting. The surface-level story is that instead of having normal adolescence and teen years, he spent his entire life since 7th grade neck deep in adult, conservative circles unaccompanied by parents.

Father’s an architect. Worked on the Trump Tower project. Mother is a mental health counselor apparently.

He was literally hanging with the CPAC crowd without his parents as a teenager. He was treated like a prodigy because he could work an audience; was organized; gung ho, etc.

Basically, if you took a story about a child actor who went off the rails or a good kid who fell in with the wrong crowd, that’s Kirk.

He got all this love, affirmation, and encouragement from exploitative, amoral people.

He was groomed.

And his parents were complicit or negligent in that.

Their kid was off running around with the political equivalent of the Gambinos and they just let him…

And then he skipped college and instantly became an even more amoral, manipulative power-weasel…

And the whole time, he was living at home! Until he was 26!

So, the Charlie Kirk story is a kid who had a lot of horsepower and no steering.

So, the shady guys took him in and showed him love and now it’s the only life he knows - and the life he loves.

He’s Chris Moltisanti.

The open question is there is whether his parents were absent/negligent or encouraging/approving.

I would guess given the limited line of sight, they were a little of each: negligent in the influences they allowed; encouraging in clapping for his “successes” in that environment.

Madison Cawthorn:

I’ll keep this short.

He displays the same severely narcissistic behaviors as Trump. Hardcore Narcissistic Personality Disorder.

Lies with impunity; exploitative; loves heroic-victim narratives; presents a facade of specialness; grandiose sense of entitlement

That didn’t start after his accident.

IMHO Narcissistic Personality Disorder like Trump’s is a defense mechanism run amok from an emotionally “dangerous” environment.

A volatile, unreliable and/or punitive adult had to be pleased or the kid was emotionally neglected or abused.

They were basically emotional hostages who learned to say whatever kept the captors from hurting them… or made the captors love them.

Cawthorn was homeschooled by an apparently VERY religious mother.

When they moved into a home after Madison’s accident, she had a Bible placed in the wall above every light switch and sealed in with drywall.

Uh, what?

And Madison was homeschooled.

So, put those together. Socially isolated upbringing; super religious homeschooling mother; father who was either inattentive, indifferent or onboard…

…and a Madison who presents the signs of having been in a SERIOUSLY dysfunctional environment at home or somewhere.

Madison is a junior Trump minus the inherited wealth.

Trump had an emotionally abusive father and weak unprotective mother…

And Trump became exploitative of women.

And allegedly so did Madison.

The finished product is the same.

You can do your own math on what the dynamic may have been like in Bibles in the Walls Home & School.

NPD is what happens when a person who is supposed to protect you has to be talked out of hurting you…

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