Bob Saget was the older wiser ‘me' for nine years on How I Met Your Mother. He was the kindest, loveliest, funniest, most supportive man. The easiest person to be around. A mensch among mensches. 1/7
I had so much imposter syndrome when HIMYM started, thought I’d be found out, kicked off set & sent home. When I'd run into Bob on the Fox lot in those early days he'd gush over my performance & tell me how he was studying me to make sure his vocal performance felt right. 2/7
This man that I’d delighted in seeing on TV for years cheering me on, letting me know I had a right to be there and playing that character... I can’t overstate how meaningful his words were. (He also, true to form, told me jokes that I cannot tell here or in polite company.) 3/7
We had a very special bond from Day 1, were never out of touch for long. We found a way to grab dinner once a year, even after HIMYM wrapped. We went to see each other in our Broadway plays. We talked a lot about how to live a meaningful life amidst all the chaos. 4/7
Bob loved his daughters so much. He loved making people laugh. He never missed a birthday text. He raised millions of dollars for scleroderma research. He proved you could be funny and successful and kind. 5/7
There are people who leave the earth and you’re haunted by all the things you didn’t tell them, all the love that was unexpressed. Luckily that wasn’t the case with Bob. We adored each other and we told each other. 6/7 open.spotify.com/episode/3bHMRc…
I’m endlessly grateful that HIMYM brought Bob Saget into my life. I’ll hear his voice in my head for the rest of my days. /end
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"Anthropologist Margaret Mead was asked by a student what she considered to be the first sign of civilization in a culture. The student expected Mead to talk about fishhooks or clay pots or grinding stones.
But Mead said that the first sign of civilization in an ancient culture was a femur (thighbone) that had been broken & then healed. Mead explained that in the animal kingdom, if you break your leg, you die. You cannot run from danger, get to the river for a drink, hunt for food.
You are meat for prowling beasts. No animal survives a broken leg long enough for the bone to heal.
'A broken femur that has healed is evidence that someone has taken time to stay with the one who fell, has bound up the wound, has carried the person to safety...
Deeply saddened to hear of Ram Dass’ passing because I loved him and his words. But he also wrote things like “Dying is absolutely safe” so I know he is fine. Wishing him a safe passage to his next destination. #lovingramdass
He came to see “Liberal Arts” when it was at the Maui Film Festival. The following day at his home he told me “The stroke has been so wonderful. Because it taught me that I’m not my body. It happened to my body. It didn’t happen to me. I needed to get that.”
A few years later I visited him again in Maui. I wrote a song about him while I was there. I’ll never forget his smile as I played it for him (and that I was inexplicably not allergic to his cat.) #lovingramdass
1. I led a short meditation before the second seder I attended Saturday night, the gist of which was a series of Passover/spring-related prompts. Thought it was worth sharing here.....
2. Think of a time in your life when you were in deep suffering
Think of a time in your life when the clouds parted and you were relieved of your suffering
3. Think of a time in your life when you shed tears of grief
Think of a time in your life when you shed tears of joy
Think of those things you have yet to shed tears over but maybe might need to