Thread by @GbengaWemimo

History was the problem
She felt it mattered that the relationship be kept as long as possible
He also felt the same way, but it was obvious it was not going to lead anywhere
His parents didn’t like her and they fought vehemently against the union or the relationship!
It was okay

Her parents also didn’t want it
They wanted her to be with a guy that understood their church ethos
She was born into a white garment earring church
He was born into a Pentecostal church
His learners didn’t see her parents church as church, they labelled it a cult but he was in

love with her
Her parents are die hard members of the church where her father had risen to become a shepherd by word of prophecy
He was a cook in an international organisation when he got the call to become a pastor and he took it with delight
Why couldn’t she find a guy in that

Church?
Why stray to a place where she was not accepted for who she was?
But she was in love with him!
They met at her school’s executive council
She was elected as the representative of the department on sport
A position he got for her indirectly because he was taught her how to

Play chess, and scrabbles
She won the departmental tournament for ladies and was voted for enthusiastically when she went in for the post of sport director
He was the President of the department
He was smart and very wise
He made her better in every way
For her sec was not a big

deal, she had been having it since she was sixteen
For him sex was a big deal because his church had issues with “loose” ladies and she was termed or coined or labelled to be one
She gifted him herself when he turned eighteen
She could have slept with him sooner but she wanted

Him to know he was an adult when he chose to be with her
They had an underground relationship for five years and then he told his parents about her and all he’ll let loose
Neither parents accepted both of them
They pushed and fought but it was a dead end
She broke it off when she

Met a guy who would take her for who she was
Her relationship with the guy was okay but she was in love with him, so she would sneak to his room and have some great times even after breaking up
One day his mother saw her sneaking into his room and raised hell
It was the most

Embarrassing day of her life
She left him and decided to stay with her new guy for better and for worse
He had promised her the moon, the sun, the planet and the world
She told herself she was better off accepted than loved but the heart is a tricky fellow
It basically wouldn’t

Do what it was told until it lands one into trouble
One day she went to see him but these was determined to tell him
it was over and not sleep with him
Since they broke up he had been pestering her for a conversation
So she obliged
She went to his house,his parents had travelled

They were in his room
He was cunning
She knew this and she had made up her mind about how to handle him
The she said “open sesame, let me in”
She said “No”
He said “You have been with another guy, would you say you didn’t sleep with him?”
She said “We broke up and I moved on”

He said “So you have this guy all@of yourself! What about me! I have loved and stayed with you for 8 years on this course
My mother had relented and we are both working on my father but you thrashed all of my effort and moved on to another guy. Why?
She had no answer
She knew he

worked hard to keep her and defied heaven and hell for their relationship to be on for eight years
She had assumed moving on was setting him freely he was uptight and needed release
She said “I don’t want to sleep with you”
He said “What would you say my offence is?
She couldn’t

say
She thought about it
He was miserable and unhappy and she could help!
She opened the dam
She said “I know you love me, you can come in this last time”
He dove in!
Buried himself so deep that she was seeing angels
It took almost an hour
It was as if he was saying farewell

Without saying farewell!
Finally it was over
She dressed up and left
A few weeks later she discover she was pregnant
Her boyfriend was not responsible, he had gone for NYSC
She called him and told him
He laughed and told her it was not his baby because they had broken up!

Since the day they had remorse sex she had avoided him like a plague
How then would he accept the pregnancy?
She was too scared of abortion and was too confused to know her next move
She told a friend her challenge
The friend introduced her to a cleric, of another religion!
She

Didn’t know how it happened but she married the cleric and had four children for him before she came to herself
What had happened to me she asked!
The cleric only laughed and told her to settle with him because she had nowhere else to go
One morning, she joined the prophecy hour

Of a fellowship online and her case was mentioned
Well, it was not only mentioned! She felt an urgency to leave the cleric’s house
She left with her four children after 13 years in the cleric’s bondage
The brother in Jeans and T-shirt (he gave the prophecy that set her free) met

With her and listened to her story
He rented an apartment for her and her children
He led her to Christ
He said broiled her in an online school and paid the fees and that of her children
He told her God is mindful of her
She believed
15 months later she got a visa to relocate

with her children to a foreign land
She was also given a wonderful job that catered for the need of all her children
She finally realised Hod loved her and didn’t count her life of error as anything but a blot!
A blot He erased by the blood of Jesus.
Glory be to God!

Ps: She will be travelling to the UK in a few days
Please don’t lose hope, God is not done with you yet!
Come to him with your errors and He will give you rest!