A common issue with unframed men in their relationships with their women is that the women control the sex. These women will frequently deny and reject their men sexually with various excuses.
"I have a headache" "I am not in the mood" "I do not feel attractive tonight" -- blah blah blah. These are common phrases that women use to slide out of their responsibility to supply their men sex. These women are not sexually aroused by their men and feel burdened by sex
And the more these women reject their men sexually the less respect they will have for them. It is a problem that fuels the problem further. These women who sexually deny their men will hide their true sexual arousal for other men. Sex goes hidden from view.
What is a man to do when he is being sexually denied in his relationship? Two things. He should not ask for sex but rather initiate sex. A woman gets warmed up for sex during the act. Women easily refuse sex because they have yet to reach the arousal during the act.
When she is adamant about not wanting sex. Withdraw affection and attention. She must realize the trauma she is causing her man not by word but rather emotional frequency. This will cause her to feel uneasy after rejecting the man. A learning lesson.
A man must realize that life is a series of negotiations. And sex inside a relationship is less about "Emotional love" as it is about a man getting his desire through the power of negotiation. And what is the best negotiation tool?
Masculine frame. A woman will naturally fall into submission and focus on pleasing her framed leader of his desires. Sex twice a week? No issue. Sex twice a day? No issue. It is not the woman that matters but only the strength of the man's frame with the woman.
A woman will compliment herself to the desires of her framed man. She will do whatever he wants. This confuses feminized men who are friends with their women. Framed men get everything they want because of being respected. Women love pleasing framed men and love spoiling them.
Do not let her get away with sexually denying and rejecting you easy. The more she denies the less respect she will have for you. It is paramount to fight for your sexual desires and needs for the greater health of the relationship. And the more she respects, the more she loves
Why a man must be a protector/provider to his woman.
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The idea of men being protector/providers to their women may seem old fashion to modern feminist sensibilities. Feminists may say "Men have been protector/providers historical"
They use the word "Historically" because history can be dismissed. This fuels their worldview of social constructs. It allows them to think it is merely a bygone tradition with little rational meaning.
When a man goes from unframed to framed, in his teens, twenties or later; women will say how he "Grew into himself" Or "Calmed down" -- Women commonly say this after a man picks up frame because the man's projected anxiety has lowered.
The biggest turn off for women is nervousness. And a man becomes nervous when he is in doubt. This doubt filled state is the common state of a feminized man. Why? Because the man is dependent on emotional validation which means he requires more validation of self.
Unframed men will have years of feminization to overcome when picking up frame. They will have decades of seeking affection over respect built into their identity. And if a man has gotten to the point where he wants a framed life is a man who is willing to admit a need for change
A feminized man will be groomed to constant doubt over his inner emotional state. This will cause him to seek external validation to ease his anxiety of identity and doubt of self by seeking the approval of others.
A woman is innately vulnerable. This causes an unframed man to think "She is vulnerable, therefore I must be sensitive with her" This logic will make a man think he must be soft because she is soft.
Matching softness to softness is like matching a woman with a woman. But do women sexually crave to be with each other, or do they seek out what is different to them? We know that opposites attract. So matching softness to softness is counterproductive to sexual attraction.
Being alone and living alone can be a challenge to a man. We all have feelings of alienation and loneliness from time to time. But let us discuss what is the feeling of loneliness truly means. Because we rationalize our feelings as men and this helps us to solve uneasy problems.
A man will become lonely when he is deprived of emotional validation from others. This is why some men get lonelier than other men. Because some men need more external validation for their emotions than other men.
Hyper feminization has caused radical feminist beliefs to saturate the mainstream media. Young, radicalized men and women are taught woke beliefs by feminist professors and these students go into corporations to spread what they learned.
What is the core belief behind Woke ideology? It is the spirit of participation trophy and mindless inclusion. This "Give from compassion" is feminine in nature as opposed to merit-based systems of competition that is masculine in design.